ok a little while back i asked a question. i was saying how i liked a guyfriend of mine. i liked him more then a friend. also that he will be leave soon for the navy. i asked if i should tell him how i felt. all but one person said to tell him. my friends said i should tell him. my biggest worry was to ruin the friendship, i didn't want to ruin it. but i said that i will tell him......but me being the biggest chicken and the most shyest person. -_-* *sigh* i e-mailed him what i want to say to his face. stupid idea but i was just to scared. well i didn't get a e-mail back and was like o'crap i messed up. but my friend was like its ok he might be waiting to talk when he sees you. well when i went to our crew meeting. he didn't come say anything. the meeting was canceled. so he didn't even get out the car. i waited awhile and my friend said you should call him. again i am a chicken and i am shy i don't call people much cause i am afraid to call at a bad time or something. (adding more)
2006-11-09 02:29:05 · 8 answers · asked by ?????? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i am strange i know it. so i e-mailed him again just a simple little e-mail. i told him i am sorry if he is like mad or like freaked him out, (because joking around a friend was like he probably hates you now) and that i just want to make sure we are friends still. i wrote at the end plz e-mail me back. but he didn't. it been awhile and our next meeting is sunday. so my question is what should i do? like not say anything to him or what. do you think he hates me now? sigh i am really worried
sorry for any bad spelling
2006-11-09 02:36:03 · update #1
If he's your friend he shouldn't hate you for 'speaking' what you felt. He may just be thinking over what you wrote. I have the same problem with a guy friend of mine. I'm a chicken also and I wrote a note to him and left it on his pillow when he wasn't there. But as for your situation at your next meeting walk up to him and say 'Hi' ask him how he's doing. If he doesn't respond than maybe he's upset or just still thinking about it. (Guys are like that...) If you think you have the strength enough ask him if he received your email. If he says yes you can try apologizing and see how he reacts. But if you don't have the strength than I would just try striking up a conversation about something else. Who knows maybe during the conversation he'll bring up the email. Don't let your worries get in the way like I do. It can make life a bit miserable if you worry a lot about the email or what to do. He's a friend and he should be able to respect your feelings no matter what.
2006-11-09 02:46:18 · answer #1 · answered by dartzallmine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK the only way you are going to find out is to just call him, what is the worst that can happen, he might turn u down well that's just how the cookie crumbles but remember it's not the end of the world, if he is a really good friend, then it will remain that way it just might be awkward for a while!
2006-11-09 10:35:05 · answer #2 · answered by missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i thank maybe is afraid that going to the navy he won't see you and that a long distance relationship would be hard to do iam a shy person too and chicken to do things the right way too i would have done the same thing you did maybe going to the navy he don't want a relationship he is just wanting to go there single and why he never said anything is that he don't want to break your heart
2006-11-09 10:36:51 · answer #3 · answered by carebearblue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should call him or talk to him face to face..this makes you more worried to wait and see what he will reply to your email ,I think one thing and i hope it will not bother you ,from his reactions i think he doent consider you more than a friend and he is just trying to let you know this ,sorry if i sound harsh but I thought so from what you said ....I am not always right ,there might be some other reasons .so you wont find out untill you be brave enough to talk to him face to face ..
2006-11-09 10:49:38 · answer #4 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey if u have called him before and u stopped calling him maybe he thinks your mad at him or something..I donno how your relationship is with him but dear if u dont tell if that u like him he'll never know..he probably likes you too. I liked my hubby for 6 years and never said a word cuz i was with other guys....so 6 years later here we are married!! it turned out that he liked me too and was too afraid to say so...if u like him tell him if he doesnt like u like that he'll tell u just speak up..tell him u dont want to risk ur friendship and just please please tell him how u feel u'll feel so much better... good luck
2006-11-09 10:36:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your thoughts to yourself. It is better to want something you don't have than to have something you don't want. I hear my neighbors fighting all the time! I think to myself I may be lonely - but at least I don't have to put up with that crap!
2006-11-09 10:32:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
get it over and done with if he is such a good friend he will understand either way
2006-11-09 10:43:36 · answer #7 · answered by delsg1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should call him.
2006-11-09 10:30:57 · answer #8 · answered by madeira 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋