I met this guy we've been dating for 2 weeks, he likes me to spank him. I don't mind it is kind of a turn on. Is that normal?
2006-11-09 02:28:34 · 17 answers · asked by ? 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
ive never spanked a guy...but i dont know, i guess everyone has different things that turn them on
2006-11-09 02:30:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It perfectly normal and more common than most people think. If it's a mutual turn-on then go for it. Although it is considered a part of the BDSM scene, most spanking fans rarely go beyond the spanking.
2006-11-09 12:40:48 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who can say what's 'normal? But it's certainly not uncommon. Lots of guys I know love spanking girls, some enjoy spanking other guys, and plenty of girls and quite a few guys love to be spanked. It's a bit kinky (which makes it all the more of a turn-on), deliciously erotic and a lot of fun. Enjoy!
2006-11-09 13:48:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depends actually.... If you are spanking as part of a fetish, that it brings you both pleasure. No problem. If it turns into a master/slave demeaning kind of think, I personally don't think that is normal. That I suppose is your call, and what works for you.
2006-11-09 11:05:47 · answer #4 · answered by Ben W 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Very normal and can be very exciting to / for both participants >>>>>
as long as both are agreed and just how far it goes ,with what is being used to do the spanking ,etc....
2006-11-09 11:00:05 · answer #5 · answered by nygayart 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
FB, I was partnered with a guy who was into this. I found this out after we moved in together. Now most who aer into this aer nto just into a casuall couple slaps on the butt. Most go from that to the extreme. They will have several paddles and want them used a lot harder than you may feel comfortable with. mine wanted me to hit him until he was really red and the welts were forming. Sorry I could never hurt anyone I cared for that much. So he really got me to do it. In fact his sexual fetishes were one reason we parted. Anyhow, find out how far he goes with this before you get too involved with him. Make sure you can deliver what he desires. If you can't understand this and make sure it won't cause problems.
2006-11-09 10:44:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whatever! If you like it then it is NORMAL. I personally don't wouldn't spank anyone just because I find it strange and no one dare think about doing it to me.
Have fun!
2006-11-09 11:12:57 · answer #7 · answered by Yikes! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a lesbain and me and my girlfriend always spank each other and squeeze each others bum we find it as a great turn on for sex
so to me it is normal
2006-11-09 11:07:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perfectly normal. Never was a turn-on for me until I saw more of it in pics. A lot of guys do it. Your normal like the rest of us
2006-11-09 10:31:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Spanking rocks! It's part of BDSM. I spank my husband from time to time :)
2006-11-10 21:52:55 · answer #10 · answered by Inquiring Mind 19 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋