I have a boy that is sprung over me, HELP ME!?

Question

I use to go with this boy and I didn't really like him. He was sweet and all, but his looks wasn't how I wanted it to be. I broke up with him but he's in love with me. I'm trying to get rid of him and not hurt his feelings. He told my friend that we are going to get back together. How can I lose him once and for all?

Answer 1

You just have to tell him that you only like him as a friend. You can not stay unhappy just to keep someone else from being unhappy.

Answer 2

Sometimes being nice and pleasant has its limits. I would let him know that its over, and this is the last time you're going to be polite about it (make it clear that does not mean the next time you are going to be saying yes). If he persists, have a restraining order placed against him for harassment, and let him know you will follow through on the charges if he violates it. Some people can only take no for an answer when it is done very directly and forcefully, and he sounds like one of them.

Answer 3

tell him it is over....... or say lets give a break and see if our love is true.....let us not meet or talk or write letters or have any contact for one year...and during this year if he gets intrested in someone better than u he can go for her...and if u find someone better than him u can go for him but then if u r love is true u would meet at a specified time after a year...if you dont meet then your love was not true!!!hey this is simple...make him understand the logic!...tell him that u want some one who can wait for u for ever ..... truly !!! and i am sure he will not be willing to stay that way for so long....just give it a try...good luck

Answer 4

SIT HIM DOWN AND TELL HIM I'M REALLY SORRY BUT I DON'T LIKE YOU LIKE YOU LIKE ME I'M REALLY SORRY