ur ex-boyfriend that u became best friends wit became a total ***?...so we dated for a while...and of course i wasn't interested in him anymore i jus saw him as a friend...well at first he didn't understand that's what he says...well i'm married now not to him but to a wonderful person..so my ex(Nate) and I became best friends that lasted for a about 3 yrs....well one day my husband went to work and Nate(ex) and Brit came over...well i was layin on my bed and Nate comes over and sits real close to me..i didn't feel comfortable so i moved over..well he decided to do the same and touch my butt...then he tried to reach over and touch something else...but he didn't get the chance to i moved b4 he could...then he kept callin me a b**** for no reason...he started harassin me and callin and texting & harrassin my friends. So i wen to the cops and got a harrassment charge on him..didn't i do the right thing?? My mom kept tellin me i should have told his mom he's 20 yrs old and lives wit her!!!
2006-11-09 02:14:29 · 4 answers · asked by blnchrst 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think you know the answer ... If you value your marriage .. and it seems like you do ... then protect it !
Mom's are a great influence on young men ... he not that young ... he's all done being raised up. If he did the trespass on your pants ... he needs to be removed from the picture.
It would seem he has no respect for the love you have found ... but only the lust he has for what might have been.
Be sure you keep your hubby up to speed on the issues so he knows this person has the wrong idea of what your marriage is...and your hubby can be aware of your efforts to defend your relationship.
Keep whats yours ... yours.
You did Great ....
Be happy, Be safe.
2006-11-09 02:21:59 · answer #1 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I believe you did the right thing. I don't believe his mom would be able to do anything. He's officially an adult and she doesn't have much control over him anymore. By going to the cops you did the best thing to deal with the situation and protected your marriage. You did an awesome job by doing what you did.
2006-11-09 02:35:01 · answer #2 · answered by dartzallmine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow sounds like a Jerry Springer question. If you don't feel right about someone and he calls you names get rid of him. Plain and simple as that.
2006-11-09 02:17:52 · answer #3 · answered by queenmaeve172000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg thats messed up but yes you did the right thing but you know what it is.. he probably still likes you
2006-11-09 02:19:11 · answer #4 · answered by jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋