what do men look for in a women???

Answer 1

Hmmm. Well it all depends on what kind of guy YOU are looking for really. You can't really expect a guy to come your way if you don't give him something worth obtaining.

Ultimately it comes down to what kind of guy you want. Every man wants a woman who is beautiful. That's a given with no limits. Present yourself as someone who is desirable and see how that works. Along with the beauty comes the personality part. Contrary to popular belief men do like a girl who has a personality. If you are pretty but have a punk attittude then 1 of 3 things is going to happen : 1) the guy will only see you as a hottie and probably not respect you which means you are worth a good shag or two but nothing more. 2) he might dig the attitude for a short while but then his eyes will probably wonder and see something else better and just keep you as a 2nd optionl meaning he'll cheat on you but still claim to love you. 3) won 't even bother wasting his time trying to know you.

I would have to say if you are looking for a mature guy who is worht your while then have a good personality and a sexy smile. learn how not to cling to guy or crowd his space. maybe get interested ina few things he likes. If a guy notices this then he'll probably do the same thing for you and then the relationship is all set...so long as you floow the basic rules and don't step on each others toes (intentionally).

All in all...a good body, sexy personality, with a dash of confidence and a hint of .knowledge is the perfect recipe for getting a guy. Now get out there and bag a man, hun. :-)

Answer 2

You have put this in the Gay and lesbian section, I think you may need to put it somewhere more appropriate if you want answers.

I like funny, intelligent, warm women. People grow on me whether its sexual or not and so I find it better not to have a shopping list of stuff I require. Thats not a sexual thing, I just like people.

I don't know what men want. I suspect there are a few of them who don't either!

Answer 3

As I tend to just answer the questions as they appear in answers rather than trawl thro specific sections, it matters little that the question is in an area I wouldnt normally frequent.
But, just like another .. I look for a sense of humor, warmth and compassion, intelligence and a positive, outgoing attitude, but above all that, understanding of who I am and what I want to be.

Answer 4

Well is she going to attract more men than she can handle?
That is what I look for because then I can flirt with the ones she is not interested in.

You posted this in GLBT are you Lesbian or just interested in finding a homosexual guy friend to hang with.

Answer 5

You do realize you are asking this question in the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender section, do you not?

You won't get much input from the men here, as most (not all) of them are looking for other men!

But I can tell you what *I* look for in a woman: I look for a sense of humor, warmth and compassion, intelligence and a positive, outgoing attitude.

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Answer 6

Firstly it has to be Beauty. Then when the relationship grows, honesty, warmth, humour, loving and caring nature.

Answer 7

Child bearing hips

Answer 8

different men look for different things.

Answer 9

To be a lady in the day and real freaky after dark.

Answer 10

It would depend whether the man in question was a gynaecologist.