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my husband is a cross dresser and is interested into tips for ways to look more like a girl.

2006-11-09 00:34:24 · 12 answers · asked by genah18 1 in Society & Culture Cultures & Groups Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

12 answers

You're a girl why don't you help him or are you looking to be more like a man and can't?

2006-11-09 00:36:09 · answer #1 · answered by MOVING 5 · 0 1

Talk to him about wearing the clothes that he wants to wear without having to look like a girl. Most men would like to be men, but want to wear the clothing that they like. They often feel like they have to look like a girl because men are not allowed to wear such clothing.

Unfortunately, 1900s society has told men that they are to dress a certain way. Women were told the same thing until 60 years ago. Since then women have broken out of the stereo-types and can wear whatever they want. Men have yet to do that, but they are trying.

Look at the link in my source list and you will see that historically men wore skirts before women did. Heels were unisex from when they were first added to shoes in the 1400s until the 1900s. In fact, if you looked at a Pirate's shirt it was covered with lace and frills, yet Pirates were some of the most feared men alive through the 1800s.

Look at the links page on the web site in my source list and you will find a number of shops that cater to men wearing skirts/Kilts, pantyhose, heels and makeup.

Take care,
Troy

2006-11-09 00:52:39 · answer #2 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0 0

I've been a Transvestite my whole life and go out in public on a regular basis. I know my profile shows me as a little Sissy girl. But don't worry about your husband, I'm just very into many different unique types of dressing up. So what does he need to know, and how old is he,height,weight skin color. I'm just asking to get a better idea and give better tips. Here you can see some of my photo's here, from out on the town Vixen to Sissy.

http://www.myspace.com/sissykrystalhot

2006-11-09 00:43:30 · answer #3 · answered by Please call me ( Sissy ) 2 · 1 0

Tell him to shave...the most disgusting thing to see is a man in woman's clothes with a full beard, mustache, and/or leg hair. Also, look up the Japanese bands Malice Mizer and Moi Dix Mois-Mana (the guitarist for both) actually made me wonder about my own sexuality (he is the most beautiful 'woman' I have ever seen) before I realized he was a man...

BTW, Mana has his own clothing line-it's expensive as hell, but it might give your husband some clothing ideas, though.

2006-11-09 00:46:27 · answer #4 · answered by MigukInUJB 3 · 0 0

I don't know any cross dressers. You could check ask.com for tips on cross dressing.

2006-11-09 00:36:46 · answer #5 · answered by teeney1116 5 · 0 1

Well you or him should go to www.crossdressers.com and sign up and in, and check out all the forums in there to get tips and advice, or even find a pair of Silicone Breast forms,, if he needs any, So I take it that you are OK with it then, ?

2006-11-09 00:59:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I know several! What is the main thing women pride themselves on?? Their waist line! Your husband should invest in a GOOD waist cincher. I'm not talking something you buy at victorias secret either. I mean a FULLY boned one. You should also learn how to lace one up, seeing as you normally need to two to do it right.

I'm not so sure about "tucking" I never really got to see how it was done. but..DON'T USE DUCT TAPE! It pulls layers of skin off, and heaven forbid any stray hairs. Go to a dancers supply and buy briefs for male dancers, (they are SUPER tight..) or use an ace bandage. Again, i'm not to sure on tucking...

As for your skin. Invest in a good wax kit! Men have thicker hair on their legs, so shaving is a no go. Pain is beauty and beauty is pain....Wax them legs boi!! Same goes with pubic hair, butt hair, any hair! You might be able to shave your underarms..seeing as waxing hurts the most there. And don't wax your "member" and his boys...lots of pain there. Invest in MAC as your makeup of choice!!! They are Drag friendly!!!!!!They have endless amouts of colors, foundtains, and face care products.

And shoes!! if your hubby DOES NOT KNOW HOW TO WALK IN HEELS THIS SHOULD HELP HERE!!!

Have him walk around the house on his "toes" like in Dirty Dancing, for a few hours a day. It will build his arch and help him with proper balance. Once he can do this without falling over, give him a pair of 3 inch heels. DON'T Give him a chunk heel. The object is to teach him to walk without a crutch. And chunks are ugly..we want to be FAB!!!

Boobs! Boobs! Boobs! boobs!!!!
Depending on your chest, you coudl be able to creat cleavage. Push whatever man boobs you do have together, ace banage it, buy a nice bra..(victorias secret very sexy with padding...) And buy silcon pads to add your cup. Finish with creating shadows on your chest so it looks like real cleavage!

Anymore question, lemmi know!

Good luck doll!

2006-11-09 00:48:47 · answer #7 · answered by Pandora 6 · 1 0

Pick up a couple of books. "The Lazy Crossdresser" is one. Look for it at Powell's Books online.

2006-11-09 00:42:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

yes I know one but not my husband, you like that?

2006-11-09 00:36:29 · answer #9 · answered by Mary Smith 6 · 0 1

your husband is dressing with christian crosses? not undertanding.

2006-11-09 00:39:44 · answer #10 · answered by jihadi c 1 · 0 1

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