we always help this person out every time she needs a hand we are always there for her but every time we need a hand she always makes excuses up what do you really think about it is she really our friend or is she a mmm
2006-11-09 00:13:46 · 10 answers · asked by cuteteddy34 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
what i would do is look for somwhere to go and dont worry about what anyone will say to you what i did was done the mid night flipso no-one knew about me moving
2006-11-09 20:06:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had the same happen to me many times. I always just suck it up and continue to help others when asked. You will know that you have done what you could and didnt make up excuses
2006-11-09 08:18:31 · answer #2 · answered by needifference 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
if she offers emotional help when you need it the chances are she is a good friend but financial help?,,does she have money worries,,she may be one of those who isnt good with cash but really,this shouldnt impact on your friendship,,decide what she gives you that is free,,friendship?loyalty?a shoulder when needed?a chat on the phone when you want one? someone you can trust? friends are not always alike and sometimes differences are great but as long as the basis for friendship is the same,,it should be fine.
2006-11-09 08:19:51 · answer #3 · answered by lex 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she's a user. if you like her, keep her as a friend, but tell her that sometimes you could use her help too and when (if) she does do you a favor, then thank her and make her feel good. Positive reinforcement works better than telling her she "never does anything" and you "do everything".
2006-11-09 08:30:02 · answer #4 · answered by farf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds real selfish. She won't help you when you need the help, but when she needs help, she just calls you and you're there. I think that you should quit helping her, because she's just leaching your time and energy, but isn't willing to give any back.
2006-11-09 08:18:17 · answer #5 · answered by smart guy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would just stop helping her or make her pay for you and your friends to help.
2006-11-09 08:22:21 · answer #6 · answered by Tony 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's a user... Knows that you'll go out of your way to help her, but doesn't want to return the favour...
Blow her off... Don't have anything to do with her again...
2006-11-09 08:19:28 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sounds like she is using you guys to bail her out things like this happen because you let them happen she needs to stop getting help from you guys
2006-11-09 08:17:31 · answer #8 · answered by Fergie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
make up exuses to
2006-11-09 08:18:40 · answer #9 · answered by Lauren W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I WOULD STOP HELPING HER ***.........
2006-11-09 11:29:16 · answer #10 · answered by tweety bird 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋