and finally returned to Athens, Greece which was always my dream. Love it here, got a great paying job too. Left the man I love behind working in the US (He is Russian). He wants me to quit my job and go back to get married. I'd like that too. Of course I don't want to spend my life in an office, but..I did so much effort to come here and although I have no friends here yet, the job I got is paying well and the country is good. Am I doing the right thing? Thank you...
2006-11-08 23:59:40 · 7 answers · asked by souvlaki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to do whatever makes you happy... :D
2006-11-09 00:03:22 · answer #1 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay in Greece.
The Russian is playing you like a violin. If he was really interested in marrying you, he would have proposed before you left. Now that he is not getting many dates, he wants to get you back.
You will make plenty of friends soon. You can't expect ten people to come knock at your flat and bring a cake. You make friends by BEING friendly. Since you're in a good job and in good evironment, you have every reason to be happy and confident. Let that side of your personality out and you will have more friends than you can count.
It is better to follow YOUR dream and be happy in the long run, than to have quick/easy satisfaction but be miserable for years.
Yes you're doing the right thing.
2006-11-09 00:12:21 · answer #2 · answered by Trailcook 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wish I could leave the US and join you back at the patrida. All I need to earn is 250 Euros to pay child support back in the US. Plus, other than Interpol, the Greeks cannot check my background - I can make a new start for myself....
Stay in Greece - the US means nothing to me other than Auschwitz multiplied by 50.
2006-11-11 11:05:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
. It is a choice between the devil and the deep blue sea but definitely you are the only one who can answer best your own question. There are times in our lives when we need to make painful and difficult choice which ironically turn to be wrong in some instances and yet we have to contend ourselves with it. You can never find peace of mind in a limbo of uncertainties Sooner or later the very best of what you feel is right will dominate you. It will be unfair to you and the man you love to withhold your decision any longer. Remember that time is of the essence in this kind of scenario.
2006-11-09 00:17:56 · answer #4 · answered by proelvispresley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please think carefully before you leave Greece and your job. Do not quit your job and come back to the States, because he wants you to do it. When you were here, what did he do to get you to stay ? I think you made a wise choice, and friends will come in time, meanwhile, make chat friends on line, but be careful, do not give them information where they can locate you.
2006-11-09 08:11:04 · answer #5 · answered by RY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh guy, you ought to be couched. There are motives gamers have rules like 'Hit it and supply up it'. you're, and have agreed to, getting used for intercourse. what's happening to you is somewhat easy for a guy. it is not any longer for a women people. intercourse on my own won't make her fall in love with you, if actuality the extra in elementary terms sexual your relationship is the less possibly she is to love you. For now say no longer something. in case you unload your emotions she would be waiting to possibly close you out. Do you think of she could flow out on a date with you? be considered in public with you? What you're doing isn't even criminal! Does she have babies already? At 38 she has priceless few years left to undergo babies and additionally you in elementary terms isn't waiting to be a furnish to preserve them. Are you particular you desire to die childless? To make her fall in love with you, you ought to spend lots of time together with her and pay interest to her, dote on her. you ought to make her sense thoroughly delicate with you, like she will inform you something, ask you something, and then additionally make her sense such as you could preserve her. So my propose is get your emotions in verify. you're falling for her, yet its under no circumstances going to artwork out. If/once you start to think of roughly having babies together with her; it is long previous too an prolonged way and additionally you ought to end it ASAP. ideally you desire to end it long till now then. So do no longer something for now and take some days or perhaps weeks come to words that your emotions are relatively no longer likely to be reciprocated via her. as quickly as you're waiting to have your heart broke, you could try waters via in fact asking her out on date. you would be wanting to %. some thing with a dismal ecosystem; an indoor stay overall performance of song she likes could some thing that should artwork... it is not any longer super nevertheless, attempt to discover some thing extra person. returned, think of roughly what she likes. do no longer ask her, merely get the tickets. If she refuses you have your answer. If she says sure, then you definately hold relationship and at some point she could sense in a distinctive way (nevertheless no longer likely). in case you profess love for her she will inform you sorry and could even wreck-down and cry as she realizes what she has carried out to you. that isn't recommend she loves you, it means she's feeling severe guilt.
2016-12-14 04:13:25 · answer #6 · answered by kull 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your happy then thats all thats matters. you only live life once, and life is short. all the best
2006-11-09 00:07:08 · answer #7 · answered by angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋