2006-11-08 23:34:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
They are just curious thats all. If they are younger, like btwn 2-7, just explain whats going on, in a child-like manner. If they are "spying" on you, while you and your partner have sex, tell them that "Daddy isn't hurting mommy! (most kids connect screaming, moaning with pain) That you and daddy are just showing each other that we love them! Thats what grown ups do." Or something similar. If they are watching you in the shower, thats alright to. They jsut want to know what a body looks like that isn't their own. So don't go crazy on them...just explain things to them so they can understand a little better.
If t hey are a bit older, like 10 and up, ask them why they are watching you. Since they understand sex and nudity a little better at this age, you can tell them that yes, you and daddy are having sex, and thats because well..duh, you love each other! And that your child should respect your privacy a little more. And perhaps you might want to consider giving your child the "talk" around this age, if they are watching you. It's not a big deal, just don't turn it into one!
Good luck!
2006-11-09 00:00:50 · answer #1 · answered by Pandora 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
your household is stupid it doesn't count number how a lot u evaluate him a son he's not technically and there is not something incorrect with loving someone you do not have a blood relation to, your household is idiotic because your daughter AGREED to have sex with him, so how come he's getting regarded at like the undesirable guy even although she has purely as a lot blame?
2016-11-28 23:05:23 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please, don't overreact, as that can cause permanent sexual trauma.
Be very casual about it and ask innocently what he/she is doing and why. Keep communication open and talk openly about it. Explain that nakedness and sex are completely normal, natural things, but that they do belong to the privacy sphere.
Of course, try to make sure that spying is impossible next time. Not only for his/her sake, but for your own.
2006-11-08 23:43:08 · answer #3 · answered by Hi y´all ! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u are in the shower just say honey what you need or if they catch you in action could be a good time to explain about the birds & the bees
2006-11-09 06:33:51 · answer #4 · answered by rives 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lay tougher laws down and let them know where you stand and doors are to stay close and if the are to open them then they do it with a knock and if not then you punish them how you feel fit.
2006-11-08 23:40:39 · answer #5 · answered by isitreal1963 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell them straight out,to not ever let me catch you spying on me again or I would take something away that he or she really loves ,and values very much.
2006-11-09 02:28:06 · answer #6 · answered by ~*meli$sa*~ 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
since this is in adolescent I would say they are over 12... maybe they are curious have you talked to them about there body parts and the changes they are or will be going though??? maybe this would be the time..
2006-11-08 23:37:28 · answer #7 · answered by mum 2 Cameron and Ewan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would send them to a clinic in my neighborhood and have my nurse fill them in about body changes and sex.
Then I would explained to them about respecting adults privacy and they should not be shy about asking questions.
2006-11-09 00:36:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think it's parents fault because they should know and where to do it. but the answer is ignorance...let them imagine what they want and after that tell them (kids) it's not hat they think, and it's normally when u love someone...but ONLY when u love!!! :)
2006-11-08 23:43:50 · answer #9 · answered by cata 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd put a lock on your doors. They just curious.
2006-11-08 23:39:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋