Yes, I was surprised u actually answered.it's not a joke.we're together for 3 yrs,married 5 months.we r 30 yrs old.he has serious alcohol problems and I knew it but I love him.I moved to another continent to b wih him and now i wanna beat myself up.
he admits his problems but doesnt wanna change.I still love him but I know I can't live like this.What should I do?
2006-11-08 23:24:47 · 9 answers · asked by gobanana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If he doesn't want to change then I'm afraid there's nothing much you can do to change him. You, however, have control over your own situation from this point on. You have to decide if this is something you are willing to live with. If not, what's stopping you from leaving?
2006-11-08 23:31:25 · answer #1 · answered by Aurora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go home and be happy, You cannot with all the love in the world make him change. And living with an alcoholic who is active in his addiction is a very painful life. Alcoholics either quit or die from their disease. Good luck and God bless
2006-11-09 07:28:20 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he admits a problem but doesnt want to change then he doesnt see it as a problem. You will continue to be disappointed with him. Good Luck to You and God Bless!!
2006-11-09 07:28:27 · answer #3 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know ou can't live like this why are you? If you are so miserable an he won't help himself, there is nothing you can do for him and therefore nothing that should be keeping you there.
2006-11-09 07:27:19 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you think is going to make you happy, maybe if you do leave him he may wake up and realize what he lost, just be careful
2006-11-09 07:28:23 · answer #5 · answered by wanda h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he does not want to change, he wont change... alcohol makes people bad... you are not important, NOTHING is, EXCEPT the alcohol...
leave if you want to, he won't care
2006-11-09 07:28:16 · answer #6 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him an ultimatum seek help for his problem or you go byebye
2006-11-09 07:27:49 · answer #7 · answered by Fergie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM TO GET HIS ALCOHOL PROBLEM FIXED .
OR YOU WILL HAVE TO MOVE ON.
IF HE LOVES YOU HE WILL
2006-11-09 07:50:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE HIM!
2006-11-09 07:41:25 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. Clean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋