it seems most of the women today cannot set for anything except the best.as usual there will always be someone better than you.so what can a man do to ensure he keeps his woman if he doesnot have a lot of money or is not famous.can love do it?
2006-11-08 23:20:59 · 43 answers · asked by niko 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
I can only tell you what I think as a woman. I believe that love can and does keep a woman. In my heart, I love my man with all that I am and all that I have. Short of abuse or cheating, I don't think that there is any reason that I would leave him - certainly not for another man.
He is not wealthy financially, but he is in faith, strengh and integrity. I can believe whatever he tells me 100%. He is stable emotionally and puts me ahead of himself in all things. He is a tender and caring lover, who makes sure that I know I am both lusted after and loved. He is interested in what I have to say and encourages communication.
He takes good care of himself so that he will be healthy for our life together and because I need him. He also watches my health to make sure that I eat well, exercise, sleep well and am well.
The very best advice that I can give for making a woman want to stay in a relationship is to love unconditionally, to respect her as a person, to put her first in all things and to have integrity in all that you do. make sure that she can believe in you. Keep faith in your relationship and pray together.
Good luck and Gob bless.
2006-11-09 03:26:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a woman loves a man, it doesn't matter how famous he is or how much money he has, she will stay with him. And by the way, I believe men are more interested in only getting the best. Only with them it's not about money or notoriety, it's all about the looks. How do YOU choose the women you want to go out with?
2006-11-08 23:30:21 · answer #2 · answered by jingles 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you consider those words you use, 'His woman,' you can maybe see your all-but medieval attitude to 'women,' where they were literally, 'His Possession.'
She is only yours 'yours' for as long as she chooses to be so - and you hers for as long as 'you chose to be.'
Some of the results of this kind of thinking are reported in the Press as 'Honour killings,' where Husbands or Parents / Brothers & Sisters have killed another (female) Human Being for 'not doing as she was told' - and seen as dishonouring their family.
You state that 'Most women,' and your evidence for this LARGE percentage is from Where? and is What?
Like anything else, there is NO GUARENTEE that you or anyone can 'Keep' another person in the way you are asking about. Life is like that.
Yes, Love can do it ...though it takes the 'the Love' of TWO, not of One.
Try communicating WITH this person ~ and that includes your active 'Listening' too.
Sash.
2006-11-09 03:06:04 · answer #3 · answered by sashtou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, women have been wondering the same thing for years! You spend your life supporting aman, having children, cooking, cleaning and then he runs off with the nail technician down the road.
There's no guarantee in this life. All you can do is hope for the best and marry a woman who is committed to marriage (not a big wedding!) her family, love and you!
Been married for 17 years and never been tempted to stray.
2006-11-09 20:03:49 · answer #4 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat your woman like she is the ONLY women alive, treat her like a princess, help out around the house, and love her for who she is. Respect her opinions and always try to compromise, don't argue talk, i don't think women want a man with money or who's famous
2006-11-09 20:34:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say, "Love conquers all," and I believe that's true. If your partner doesn't feel as strongly as you do about love then there's no guarantee she'll stay. You don't need to be famous or rich to know love. Small things really does mean alot. Love between two people must be heartfelt, genuine and real. There are no limitations on love. If it's meant to be it will be.
2006-11-09 05:07:59 · answer #6 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The main 3 ingredients that will get you off to a good start, is Trust, Respect and Communication.
But Trust I think is the most important one, but it has to come from both sides,
2006-11-08 23:48:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love her cuddle her, never refer to as `the wife`.Always treat her with the same love, respect and kindness of your early relationship. Never take her for granted. If you care about her enough to ask this question, then she is a very lucky girl I hope you have a long and happy relationship.
2006-11-09 00:16:00 · answer #8 · answered by Social Science Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah love can do it!!!!
My husband has not got alot of money and is not famous!!!
You have to have a mutual respect for eachother.
I think you have chosen some real "COWS" to go out by the sounds of it.
There is someone for you out their, if you don't like what your catching change the bait.
2006-11-08 23:36:54 · answer #9 · answered by T - C - B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are not easy and you have to be willing to work at it, but it shouldn't be so complicated that it feels like a second job.
Qualities of a lasting relationship:
Unselfishness
Willingness to recognize and work on problems
Good communication
Forgiveness
Being supportive
Teamwork
Consideration
Affection
Equality
Admiration
Reaching out to others
A sense of humor
Optimism
Good Luck!
2006-11-08 23:36:45 · answer #10 · answered by DetroitBrat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋