i like a girl in my high school but i am shy to talk to her can u give me a strong reasons to talk to her ?
2006-11-08 23:16:16 · 10 answers · asked by 7antera 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you like her should be good reason to talk to her.
but don't just say Hi... and come back. first find out
more about her before you talk to her...
2006-11-08 23:26:32 · answer #1 · answered by TJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is your classmate, you can ask the assignments from her. Otherwise, try to know her more first including her qualities, hobbies, activities, and friends. try to find your common characteristics. For example, if you both love sports, and if she's a member of the tennis team, why don't you try to join the team, as well? If you are very shy, you can try to know her friends first. Be friends with them and once you've established that, you can seek their help in approaching the girl.
Before pursuing the girl, make sure you really know her. Before meeting her, prepare. Improve yourself. Know your assets, qualities, talents, and capabilities which she will like. Once you do meet her, make sure you show your best qualities and be nice. And don't forget to pray for God's help. Good luck. :)
2006-11-09 08:05:37 · answer #2 · answered by überfrau 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahhh memmories of how horrible high school was...lol, hey i think that the best way for you to break the ice would be to find a bull sht reason to talk to her, ask her something about her outfit, or say something about her shoes...girls like complements, or ask to borrow paper or a pen even if you dont need it...it could open up other convo. also, you can ask if she heard what the teacher said,just anything, and that can get you at least a foot in the door!good luck stud!
2006-11-09 07:42:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to be self-confident and forget that u are shy because u may not know when other will take ur place.all girls like boy that are capable and not afraid to show out their feeling, they might feel unsecured.u have to be a real man and show that u love her
no matter the answer she give u .is better to try and fail than none at all....... good luck bye
2006-11-09 07:40:11 · answer #4 · answered by jojo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmm....are you two classmates or seatmates?
well, even if you two are not classmates, if you really really like her.. talk to her because i think she wants to talk to you too but she's only waiting you to be the first one to start a conversation. is she shy too,i mean do you know her as a shy person?? because if she's shy person, you should make a move... just talk to her... and just connect topics to another ones...and one thing make her feel that you like her(note: if she is a shy girl)again make her FEEL! because you dont want to shock her about what you feel to her..
also.. bring up a topic(dis is a good topic):
>>what does she want for a guy?(characteristics,manners and stuff)
>>how is her day?(and if she smiles.. ask another question)(here is another thing... you ask a question and then she answers with a smile and still looks at your eyes.. it means she wants to talk to you more or ask questions more)
>>LOOK CONFIDENT AND INTERESTED TO WHAT SHE IS SAYING(i'm a girl and believe me.. we will be impressed by these)
>> dont forget to look at her eyes!!! and smile after ur conversation!!
>>make sure that she hears your voice.
>>be more patient(like if she asks that can you repeat what u said be patient and say the question again)
>>be confident to ask her like if it your dismissal is early.. ask her to go to the movies and if ur not ready to have a date, with your friends and with hers..
>>and chat with her if possible every single night.. make sure you start the conversation..
and say good night and take care always!!
thats all.. but i can give you more of this if you will just give me more details about this girl.. believe me i can help u!!>keep me updated<
2006-11-09 09:49:37 · answer #5 · answered by wonder 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like what i do just to get close to my crush...
i often ask him about assignments....(or is it the opposite? i think he asks me more on what our homework is most of the time, since i'm a veri responcble s2dnt in our class... and happiness 4 me of course..) but i think it will work, try also to know her better, u can ask ur classm8s if u wnt, but don't ask a lot too much or else it'll be obvious u like her. (but only if u don't wnt her to know u like her) but the most effective way is to approach her and tell her your true feelings! (and um, work on ur grammar)
2006-11-09 08:30:24 · answer #6 · answered by crissame 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like if you have aclass or something with her randomly talk about how annoying the teacher is or how you just don't understand the topic you are doing.
2006-11-09 07:55:23 · answer #7 · answered by WT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you like her there is a strong reason
2006-11-09 07:24:28 · answer #8 · answered by destiny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go on a talk to her...be your self..be brave
don't be shy,if you don't go and talk to her..you will regret..
Good Luck..
2006-11-09 07:24:06 · answer #9 · answered by n_n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do not need a reason from us be yourself and have some confidence in yourself
2006-11-09 07:22:29 · answer #10 · answered by alfa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋