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2006-11-08 22:38:45 · 11 answers · asked by qwq 5 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
the last one was the worst advicer. an eye for an eye never works. u might revenge him just to feel good. it will not teach him any lesson neither will he stop his behavior. but maybe if u revenge and will feel good is the way out for u?
2006-11-08 23:03:33 · answer #1 · answered by jacky 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
One of the biggest mistake a person can do is think "let's get married, i'll change you and train you to my own liking after".
Unfortunately, although you probably expect to get an answer and maybe a miracle technique of stopping your husband from lying, such an elixir doesn't exist.
Did you not know he was a liar when you married him? Maybe you haven't looked deep enough, maybe you were younger and naive, and now you face the horrible repercussions of his behaviour.
A very valuable lesson of life, is realizing that you can't change people. Do you love him enough to accept his lies? That's the question you should ask yourself. I know the answer lies within you.
2006-11-08 23:05:44 · answer #2 · answered by LoreCore 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must have been that way since he was young. So when you meet him you just overlooked that fault, or at least he did nothing to let you know what he was like.
Now you now that you can not change a person. Just think about your self, could you change something about your self just to please someone? Truthfully would that change last forever?
You now have to deside if you can live like that or possible get him to compermise with you and then hope that the compermise will work
2006-11-08 22:49:22 · answer #3 · answered by Wicked 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never change him that is who he is and always will be, even if you think you have taught him a lesson he will come back twice as strong to teach you that you are not stronger than he
Your decision is to stay or leave.
2006-11-08 22:45:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleep with his best friend, Go on Jerry Springer, Let the Two best friends fight it out while You Flash Your Titties, and dance on the pole! I'd watch that! So would most of the yahoo trailer crowd!
2006-11-08 23:00:23 · answer #5 · answered by patrick s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes not gonna stop unless you give him an all ternative like 3strike your out no more bullshit . stand your ground he dosnt care what you think unless he loves you enough that he will lose you if he dosnt stop .good luck kenny.hes life style mite require lying if so you may have to live with it or see how he likes when you start lying. you may have to excety him for what it is or fight back god bless his devilish soul and then fight back.?
2006-11-08 22:55:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him. no opportunity to lie if you never listen to him again.
no-one can be taught morality; either you've got it or you don't
you made a bad choice marrying this man, don't make a worse choice by staying.
even the bible allows for the dissolution of such marriages.
my prayers are withyou
2006-11-08 22:50:00 · answer #7 · answered by soobee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Divorce him
2006-11-08 22:41:27 · answer #8 · answered by Bully B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
divorce and a big alimony payment
2006-11-08 22:43:18 · answer #9 · answered by Normefoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy...
Let him alone...
Go as far as you can from your home...
2006-11-08 22:46:56 · answer #10 · answered by Paco Rabane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋