my marriage is one month away, i want to know the proper way of proceeding of my firstnight.?

Answer 1

well dear ...
if its ur first night ....and u r marrying the girl to whom u r less acquainted..... i mean if u r not marrying ur girlfrnd.... then don't think of sex on first night...
make her feel comfortable ... talk to her .... try to be friendly..
talk to her other than sex...
be cool and don't show that u r nervous.... be cool ....
and if she is ur girlfrnd then go for it..... but with the new position... just for change..... ha....ha..

Answer 2

Reality is that you may not want to do it on that first night. After all the excitment, after all the travel, after all the food and drink you may well want to wait a little more. Just let it feel natural.

What will help it feel natural is to get your birth control ready. If as a couple you want to use 'the pill' now is the time to get on it, it has to be used for at least a month to be effective. Kind of a bummer even to write but imaging how much worse come the 'night of'.

Figure out what also can help set the mood. Maybe some candles or sexy lingerie. Have it ready for both so you know everything will go well.

Most of all just remember it is not what you think it will be, that first time out. It will take some practice to turn it into that streamy love scene that the movies picture.

Answer 3

Hi
Sex is one thing which is to be enjoyed by both it cannot be performed by u or by her alone.So first thing is ensure that the day in which u r going to have that lovable night is some 15 to 21 days after her periods. if so then it is a right time to impregnate her.Then speak to her as to whether she is comfortable to have a sex immediately on marriage. if so proceed or if u attempt it it is a legalised rape.Then if u have decided to go for it, use the following steps.
1) First ask her or u urself undress her and also make urself naked.
2) Then take a medium sized carrot or a raddish.
3) Coat it with vasseline.
4) Insert it onto her vagina.This will break her hymen without pain and once when it is done caress her by asking her as to which part of her body she feels sexy and so caress that part to arouse her feelings.Then it ll be a pleasure for her.
5) Then proceed with the activity by inserting ur tool into her.Note that there will be 2 holes u need to go into the 2nd one.
Rest she ll take care and she too ll be knowing right.

Answer 4

The person on top has a lot of control over the degree of stimulation that they get and the person on bottom can easily increase their sexual pleasure by masturbating while simultaneously having intercourse. If the partner on top is especially coordinated, she/he could also help masturbate the person on bottom. Some of the techniques used to create an intimate environment are eye-to-eye contact, guiding your partners hip movements with your hands, massaging your partner's neck/back, nibbling the other person's ears, necks or lips. And of course, whispering something that only your partner can understand.
Sexual Positions *For a woman who wants to have intercourse for the first time*

Answer 5

Just control your sexual feelings and speak something about what are all the things she loves and her wishes..Also you say her your lovable things and your wishes..Plan together to have a bright family in future..Then both inform yourselves not to do the things you hate...After all at the climax...i.e., 12:00 p.m ask her what child she is expecting from you and how many? Then talk about your masturbation and ask her habit of doing it..the sexual arousement will raise in you both...then get rid of all your dresses both...You can ask her to have oral sex first and then vaginal sex..It will be so pleasure..Try it

Answer 6

great ,calm down at ur first night use best perfume for good smell always take deep breath while having sex with u partner do not go for hurry if u feel *** stop for while and do some foreplay than get back again to the business.

Answer 7

Oh... you just have to do nothing because it has to be your man to do anything. During my first night we had sex for the whole night and in the morning after the breakfast we again were sawing on the bed! Just an unforgettable week!

Answer 8

Is there an opportunity for you to read "The Act of Marriage" by Tim LaHaye. He talks about the things that you are asking about. Talk about your first night in advance.and decide together what you are going to do.

Answer 9

you don't mind about firstnight.on the time of your firstnight,you do only this,which your mind & heart say,naturally.The 'NATURAL KAMSUTRA' is the best kamsutra in world.

Answer 10

hey don't try to know all this ...if u get proper answer u will lose the curiosity...let it be in that night how things happen......and enjoy the exitement and nervousness thinking that ...