She was physically abused several times. Why does she think thats the right type of attention she needs?
2006-11-08 22:27:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it's sad but it happen,lowselfsteem......they don't know how to be alone....the guys have a control that she can't break.they look up to those women beater as god,,,,but at the end it's all about the power.
2006-11-09 13:32:22 · answer #1 · answered by Jazzy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Alot of time these abusive men make these women believe they are worthless by breaking down their self-esteem. However they begin to feel that noone else will have them. The men also usually threaten them by telling them they will kill/harm them,their children,their family,etc. Normally a man that abuses a woman won't fight a man. If it is found that this person has threatened this woman and that is why she is afraid,.....sometimes if a man confronts the person it will cause them to become afraid and they will the leave the woman alone. Most of the abusers convince these women that it will never happen again. Many try to blame it on alcohol or drugs,....they try to say that they never laid a hand on the woman. However I find that extremely hard to believe. As many of them will abuse women on or off of the alcohol/drugs. Talk with her and see if you can get to the root of her problem. Is it just fear? Is it low-self esteem? Best of luck in helping this woman. Hope this helps.
2006-11-08 22:39:54 · answer #2 · answered by Dana A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've got no longer long previous throughout the time of the actual stuff...the emotional....it extremely is in some situations worse as you are going to be attentive to. found out 4 or 5 yrs in the past from a psychiatrist that he's been clinically depressed from an early age on....he went on meds for a million 12 months and stopped. The cycle keeps....i'm approximately waiting to flow out. I surely have issues lined up. it is been an somewhat long no longer effortless technique. looking decrease back i will say that what has ultimately gotten me so an prolonged way of being waiting to flow is that I had to interrupt my ties together with his acquaintances and family contributors. regrettably I lost my very own self id someplace some years decrease back and am ultimately initiating to sense the previous me coming decrease back and it feels super. i'm surrounding myself w/ people i be attentive to can help me and by my very own counseling i replaced into instructed that acquaintances and family contributors in some situations are not continuously our ultimate help. maximum folk do no longer understand why abused people stay in relationships...if it replaced into that easy it does not exist yet i will say that i think of a few of it has to do with concern of the unknown. even nevertheless you would be safer away you don't be attentive to the destiny....the place you're precise now whether stable or undesirable you be attentive to what to assume....it extremely takes braveness to stroll away. My pal's sister replaced into murdered some yrs in the past via her abuser......we under no circumstances think of it's going to take place to us....
2016-12-14 04:11:40 · answer #3 · answered by kull 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Low self esteem and the thought of being alone and i hate to say it but sometimes it seems like some like abuse there is no excuse for staying with someone like that especially if you have moved on and ten decided to come back abuser never change
2006-11-08 22:33:26 · answer #4 · answered by dodgerchik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women just go with abusive relationships because of either their upbringing or past experiences. Its a mystery as to why they should think that its right to be in that sort of situation...maybe very low self esteem?
2006-11-08 22:31:26 · answer #5 · answered by huggz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We can try to explain some things and situations in all the words that we can muster but one thing that beats explanation is one where a woman sticks with a man no other woman within a ten - mile radius would take.
A saying in my language loosely translates like this - "a man and a woman who have voluntarily shared covers are people whose understanding of one another is best left to them". She knows what pulls her back to him and woe unto you if you try to advise her to leave him. You are likely to be branded "homebreaker" by none other than the two of them. Leave them alone.
2006-11-08 22:35:17 · answer #6 · answered by kombo6m 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I beleiev is cos of low self esteem, who knows her mind maybe telling her that if she backs out people will think that she has failed and another thing is love
2006-11-08 22:58:07 · answer #7 · answered by jus wanna know 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she knows no better... And some people prefer that kind of attention over no attention at all...
2006-11-08 22:29:14 · answer #8 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably because it's all she knows and thinks that's how love is suppose to be. Or maybe she's scared and he threatened her if she didn't go back.
2006-11-08 22:31:49 · answer #9 · answered by LetMeBe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Joey Ramone has the answer you need:
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He must be screwed up What did he say?
He must be screwed up Is he on glue?
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Everybody's screwed up in their own special way!
2006-11-08 22:51:50 · answer #10 · answered by Ariana Shaw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋