he told my daughter he loves me he didnt love her im confused know he wont come by
2006-11-08 22:18:27 · 20 answers · asked by crft_ngl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Let him go ... if he really loved you he wouldn't be living with another woman ... he obviously told your daughter he still loves you to ease her hurt and confusion ... he's a liar and an a**hole ... go find someone who cares for you
2006-11-08 22:20:48 · answer #1 · answered by deadkelly_1 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry for your heartache hon but you don't have to wait for your husband to give you permission to divorce him..you can just front up at the courts and fill out the paperwork and move on in your life. Truly hon, if he loves you as much as he says he wouldn't give that other woman another five minutes of his time..he would pack his bags and be right on your doorstep begging forgiveness.
I don't know your husband but it sounds like he is keeping his options open by stringing you along.
I hope you get things sorted. I think the best place to start would be to talk with him if you really love him and want him back. If he doesn't rush back into your arms but continues to live with the other woman then you have your answer. Good luck but don't drag yourself through years of hopeful thinking..you could be stopping another fine man from being with you.
2006-11-09 06:44:12 · answer #2 · answered by anything_my_child 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How possibly so? Do you believe him? No way! What makes him go for another woman if he loves u? I personally don't consider that as love. How can somebody take advantage of what (s)he thinks (s)he adores? Look , I can understand u love him but what do you do to help him realise that,besides being there for him? Give him space and let him decide whom he wants to be with. If it's you he'll come back but if not he'll play with both of you.
You do not need to be confused by something that the guy is telling you. if he loves you he will protect you from getting hurt. If he really loves you he must definately give you what will make you happy not hold on to it. You owe him nothing so why should he punish you like that? You deserve better than that and truly he's wasting your time.
Tell him how you feel if he doesn't listen take him to court!!
Goodluck!!
2006-11-09 06:40:15 · answer #3 · answered by keatlaretse y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he is being very selfish, he wants to keep you tied up so you can not begin a new relationship. And if he stays married to you he is not available to marry the other woman. So, go file for divorce, there is no judge alive who will not grant you a divorce and he is living with another woman. Stop allowing him to waste your time and tie up your life. What is the confusion about, he is dragging you down, using you so he will not have to commit to this other woman. Do yourself a favor, and divorce the deadbeat! God bless
2006-11-09 06:22:00 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't love you if he is living with another woman, and he won't divorce you because this is a way to hold you back from moving on with your life. Basically your husband wants to have you and your daughter (family) PLUS a girlfriend on the side. YOU can file for divorce...then move on with your life
2006-11-09 06:22:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he don't come by he is using the thing called love to put you off. He may be afraid that he will lose financially should he get a divorce. He is living with another woman. Don't be fooled by him.Get the divorce whether he wants it or not. Don't let anything he says change your mind! Not even him coming back(temporally)! He is living with her and wants it that way! Get free from him and live your life. WAKE UP! DON'T LET HIM PLAY YOU!
2006-11-09 06:23:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is certainly a liar and a jerk!! He couldn't love you if he's living with another woman. Go ahead an file for divorce, the judge will throw the book at him. Get on with your life and get you a better man!!
2006-11-09 06:54:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants his cake and eat it too. What do you mean give you a divorce. Check with a lawyer but if he does not sign it just might take a couple more months but you will still get a divorce. good luck
2006-11-09 06:23:12 · answer #8 · answered by kelsey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't have to give you a divorce if you want one, just proceed with the divorce. It will take a lot longer without his cooperation, but it will still get done. Don't get stuck in playing games, take control of your life and do what's best for you.
2006-11-09 06:21:00 · answer #9 · answered by Jon O 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
please forgive the harsh remarks from others, i am sorry that you have to go thru that. do not persue him anymore than he persue's you. he may love the both of you and confused or maybe he wants his cake and eat it too. assuming that your not willng too share a piece of the hubbycake, do not have sex with him! having sex tells him everything is o.k. but in reality its not.
give him a altimadum and timeframe to let that slut go and seek help together as a couple and try to work things out. if not there is nothing you can do but move on, and pray to god, cause it hurts like hell. i wish you the best and god bless
2006-11-09 06:32:53 · answer #10 · answered by DUSTY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋