So my bi curious(I assume)neighbor who lives down the street kissed me(Note:after a few drinks)&proceeded to express that she had a crush on me&that she had kissed other girls be4&now was ready for a relationship&could see herself with me.(Later even expressed ensecurity in keeping my intrst) At the time I was leaving a relationship&was not looking for a thing.Not to mention surprised by her advancement cuz I thought she was straight..My crazy x found out about us.created drama .contacted her family.threaten & assault her..I didnt see or speak to her for 2mnths to avoid her from having further problems.Nor did she contact me out of fear of my x finding out.After crzy x was hauled away I informed her & immediately she asked to hangout the next day.The day went so well as previous days We spent the entire day together But that night after drinking at her request we had sex(1st) next morning she left&has not anwsered me about her feelings bad or good.But has respnd 2 other unrelated texts
2006-11-08 21:57:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It's possible that she doesn't know how to feel right now. Give her some time. She could possibly have been raised to believe that sex with another woman is wrong so she's confused. If she liked it and is interested she'll let you know in her own time. If she didn't like it (hard to imagine) she could just be scared to tell you and uncomfortable. Maybe she just wanted to try it once and now she's done. I doubt it though. She's just dealing with a lot of confussion right now. Give her time and let her know you're still there for her. She'll come around when she's ready.
2006-11-08 22:10:24 · answer #1 · answered by just jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may have wanted just a one night fling and being she had to have a drink or two before hand leads me to believe she needed the "courage from a bottle" boost.
I agree with others that you should just leave it alone for now and let your bi friend make the next step.
2006-11-09 07:46:15 · answer #2 · answered by dragon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that she just wanted to fool around, but found that she liked it way too much. She might now be backing off because she is afraid to be a lesbian, she just wanted to play around. Facing actually being a lesbian is frightening and this could be the problem. I agree with everyone else, let her along, be friends if that's what she appears to want. Let her work it out for herself.
2006-11-09 09:31:15 · answer #3 · answered by irongrama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very possible that she doesn't know what to think right now. She probably has horrible memories of your ex and all he did...I'm quite frankly surprised that she came around a second time....but let her come to you at her own pace if she wants to.
2006-11-09 06:13:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she just wants to be friends.
it was probably her first time at lesbian sex and changed her mind
2006-11-09 06:03:11 · answer #5 · answered by ☺Everybody still loves Chris!♥▼© 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋