why do some men find it a turn on for their g/f to dress a school girl?

Question

i think its a bit dodgey to say the least.

Answer 1

its a bid weird aint it

i work in a newsagents that sells a lot of top shelf magazines and i refuse to sell the ones with girls dressed like that. To me that could lead to other things

Answer 2

Im far from a prude but this DOES freak me out. To say its one aspect of it eg a mini skirt or socks, is a cop out. As those could be worn in all sorts of different outfits. Also the "innocence" explanation seems daft, as lots of other scenarios could be found for that. Most "schoolgirl" outfits that men seem to like bear no real resemblence to a school uniform. I think it IS well dodgy as it seems it signifies a child and that is pervy. As a woman I think that there are plenty other scenarios and fantasies other than trying to dress up as a minor. To say its just "fantasy" is no..excuse? Where do you stop then with fantasy, or are all of them fair game, so long as they arent carried out for real?

Answer 3

Great question and one as a man I've often pondered.

Is it because it represents a time of awakening and discovery for many of us? It refers back to a time of innocence and simplicity and was the dawn of experience with the opposite gender.

I'd rather think that was what was going on in a man's subconcious than the alternative.

Answer 4

I think for the sake of our 'civilised society' we have learnt to repress our animalistic sexual desires which if we were to give free reign to would appear to others very violent, and savage.
It's of course very hard to repress them completely, hence a lot of these odd fetishes pop up which I think are probably our way of dealing , or perhaps not dealing with our repressed desires.

Put bluntly, I think a lot of men would like to 'do' a school girl-just be thankful for those who stick to the dressing up games.

Answer 5

Youth and its attendant freshness and sweetness will always be a turn on for some people. The schoolgirl fetish is actually quite common in Japan, New Zealand and the United Kingdom. It adds a little zest to the otherwise humdrum world.

Answer 6

It may seem worrying i.e is he a pedo'? far from it there may be one single aspect that turns him on, mini skirt, white socks, any number of reasons, the bigger picture is he is looking for excitment, in what he feels has become a boring sexual script, if you feel uncomfortable with it don't do it, experiment with something you both feel comfortable with, meet him from work with a mini skirt and boots under a long coat, when he least expects it show him whats under the coat, even in a crowded place when no one is looking except him, you will change his train of thought from schoolgirls to whatever you have on, and he will realise that you are sexually exciting, as this is what he is realy looking for, a partner that can sometimes inject excitment into there relashionship

Answer 7

I think its just most guys started getting really horny when they were schoolboys and lusted after the girls at school but most of them did nothing about it at the time, so this is just a way of taking themselves back to that time and 're-living' their youth. Notice, some of the women talk about their teacher/pupil fantasy, again re-living their youth when they had crushes on teachers.

Now if they start going after real schoolgirls you should definitely worry.

Answer 8

Its role play i often dress up for my b/f in different things but he doesn't like the school girl look tried it once and he said he didn't like the fact that we were pretending that i was a young girl he said it felt wrong.

Its peoples personal preference.

Answer 9

i used to like it as it was like doing a school girl.
now she is wrinkled i get her to dress up as the teacher and im the student she spanks me with the ruler when ive been bad.
every person has different sexual desires who is to say what is dodgey or not?

Answer 10

I dont know why guys like it but it turns me on to dress up as a school girl, I love the whole role play of my 'teacher' seducing me and teaching me extra curricular activities!