i recently broke up with my gf about a month ago and it sucks, i cant get over it, we went out for 2 years and we both loved eachother, she doesnt want to go back out, shes in a mind set where she says she just wants to be alone, but i think she is just thinking this i dunno, i need help big time, i think ive tried everything like should i stop talking to her fora while? give her time to think? Do girls say these things now and change their minds down the road? i dont know what to do and i really need advice if someone really wants to listen or help i will give u my email and i can explain fully, i could really use some good advice. I truly love this girl alot and i really need her back and dont know what to do anymore SOMEONE HELP!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-08 21:03:03 · 6 answers · asked by fido543 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i'm sorry, it's over. she has already told you that. you have to give her space and move on, don't even talk to her anymore. you'll make it worse if you pursue something she doesn't want. you wouldn't want somebody doing that to you, right?
2006-11-08 21:05:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, stop contacting her..!! possibly makes your chances of getting back with worse in the long run. In the mean time lean on your family and friends for support... Get out in the world, meet sum new people. Ive just gone through the exact same thing, split up 2months ago after a 4 year relationship..
2006-11-08 21:19:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give her the time and space that she needs. Be her friend. In time maybe things will work out.
2006-11-08 21:07:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you broke up with her. why did you do that if you want her back? mabe you need time to think and be alone. give her space till you sort yourself out.
2006-11-08 21:17:57 · answer #4 · answered by ellierckworld 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make things worst then they are ..don't push her to much ..she will hate you ..
Just keep in touch .be very kind ..and most important give her time ..there is no quick fix ..my advice to you don't listen to any quick solutions ..they never work if any thing .. it will ruin everything completely..good luck
2006-11-08 21:18:26 · answer #5 · answered by JJ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you've had sex with her, that's your problem.
Craroline is correct, as well.
2006-11-08 21:06:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋