I’m so upset, I just want to cry! I have a plane ticket to go and visit my X (very good friends) and I was going to tell my bf I’m going away with work, Yes I know it’s bad to lie! So my little voice in my head drove me crazy and kept on telling me I’m a bad girl! This morning I cancelled everything! I can’t even get my money back for the plane ticket!!!!!!!!!! I was so excited! I couldn’t wait to see the sea and have some fun! Why am I so upset?? YES I know it was wrong of me!
2006-11-08 20:51:19 · 6 answers · asked by confussie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
your boyfriends heart thanks you. you will get back more then face value of that plane ticket. for some reason you were not supposed to go.i'm sorry, that part sucks. but don't put any blame on him. try being honest with him if you have nothing to hide. guys can handle truth a lot better then being lied to & finding out later.
2006-11-08 21:00:35 · answer #1 · answered by matthew m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its called a conscience. You thought that you were doing the right thing by lying to your boyfriend, leaving on false pretences and cheating in your relationship. The little voice was absolutely right...cheating and lying is wrong. If you're really so interested in your ex, you should stop seeing your current boyfriend and if you just want to go and have fun, why not take current boyfriend with you? Why are you in this relationship if you don't mind cheating on him, leaving him by lying and spending time with an ex? Do you think you both have a future? I think not.
2006-11-08 20:55:31 · answer #2 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adrenalin, hon! and your honesty! And that little bit of flirting adventure, that all girls love to do! And the let down, as you realise you were so close to an exciting experience you never got! That's why your so upset! I feel so sorry you didn't follow your dreams and go for it! You would have had a nice cosy feeling inside that only you would have known about! lol! Have a good day hon!
2006-11-08 21:10:28 · answer #3 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just upsetting because its the end of something that you were excited about. But stop feeling sad, you did the right thing.
If you and your ex were just good friends you would have been able to tell your boyfriend. Figure out your life and who's more important.
2006-11-08 20:54:20 · answer #4 · answered by 1st time prego 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are upset because you are lying to your bf. Pl. don't get upset because it is your decision to go and see your X and if you think it will be good to see him then just think what will you do.. will you come back or not. If you come back then you have to live with the persons whom you are lying.. Your future will me more upsetting.. I think you must cancel the ticket and go out with your present bf.
Please live in present. Don't live in past.
2006-11-08 21:22:09 · answer #5 · answered by heart_intelligence 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will pass if it really was the right decision. I think you should break up with guy if you were willing to buy a ticket to go see your ex!! GOOD LUCK
2006-11-08 20:55:43 · answer #6 · answered by vetsmom_rgv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋