im such a shallow guy and i want to get rid of this attitude, how do i overcome to admire a pretty face of a girl and instead focus more on its inner personality?
2006-11-08 19:56:36 · 7 answers · asked by eagle 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
it's okay to go in head first for a girl with a very attractive facade. physical attraction plays an important role too. but if you seriously want to focus more on their inner personality, then you should start practicing being an excellent listener. get to know the "real" woman inside your date. you'll appreciate her more that way. let her do most of the talking.
2006-11-08 20:10:10 · answer #1 · answered by Ricky the Kid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may still admire a pretty face, just make sure you also find one attractive feature on every person. Models are still always going to generally more attractive that the average person. But after you master the art of finding the most attractive feature on every girl you meet, then you will come to find out the rest of beauty from the inside that eclipses all "physical faults" and enhances that one beautiful feature.
After you have learned both of the above lessons, you will soon be shocked to learn that you have fellen in love with a certain "quirk" feature that before you would have founf unappealing. Depending on your true desire to be less shallow, it will work. And Kudos for trying to overcome a debilitating weakness. It shows a real honorable quality in you.
2006-11-08 20:03:23 · answer #2 · answered by Ancient Forever Lost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rent Shallow Hal, the video. Listen to motivational speakers such as : Tony Robbins and Les Brown. Find out what makes you the way you are and learn a new way of looking at the world.
If we have an attitude of gratitude,we can't be miserable!
2006-11-08 20:01:45 · answer #3 · answered by auntgnu62 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try developing a greater respect for your fellow man (woman) and perhaps you will become more mature. Attitudes are often a matter of choice.
2006-11-08 20:15:43 · answer #4 · answered by Ted T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not a problem that you admire a pretty face. it just a matter of time. then you will try closer to her and you heart will find its way. if she still beautiful in yr heart after some times, well... it is done.
2006-11-08 20:10:48 · answer #5 · answered by naw m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to give people a chance, take the time to get to know them that is a start.
2006-11-08 19:59:31 · answer #6 · answered by Bruce d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st off.... try referring to her as a person instead of an "IT"...lmao thanx for the smile
2006-11-08 20:07:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋