I've always been curious about lesbians. I've fantasised about other women but I dont really know if they are totally satisfied without feeling a penis. I've seen it in movies and stuff, that they always use dildos so that basically is s sort of penis. So why dont they like natural penises? If any lesbians are out there please let me know. I'm interested.
2006-11-08 19:50:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You are making a faulty generalization. No all lesbians use dildos. Some do not want penetration of any kind.
2006-11-08 20:47:17 · answer #1 · answered by Alias400 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"I've seen it in movies and stuff, that they always use dildos so that basically is s sort of penis." Lesbian porn is mainly directed at men. Men want to see a penis enter a woman, whether it be real or synthetic. They make these movies using and doing things that men want to see.
"I dont really know if they are totally satisfied without feeling a penis." Lesbians are totally satisfied without feeling a penis but some prefer toys. Sheesh!
"I've always been curious about lesbians." Why does it matter to you anyway? Do we ask you what satisfies you during sex? No. Then why are we such open game???
"So why dont they like natural penises?" Lesbians love women. Women don't have a penis. Love is more than just sex. End of discussion.
If you can't comprehend this then there is something seriously wrong with you.
2006-11-09 05:04:57 · answer #2 · answered by Mooks 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
A dildo is not a penis. It is a sex toy.
Penetration has no sexuality; it's just a sex act that can be done between any two people who have anything that can be stuck in a hole. That's basically it.
The reason lesbians aren't with men isn't because they have an aversion to penetration; it's because they aren't attracted to males- the whole package. They want women. There are a lot or lesbians who don't and would never want to be penetrated by their partners- they are happy with everything else (and believe me, you can completely satisfied without feeling a penis). But those who do use dildos aren't mimicking heterosexual sex, they are just doing what feels good to them.
Hope that makes sense.
2006-11-09 20:48:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We each do our own thing. Most lesbians I know use a dildo occasionally, kind of like a kink or perversion. I've been gay for 30 years, we used dildos more in the beginning that we do now. There are so many wonderful ways for women to make love, unlike men who really think sex is all about the penis. I was straight, or lived that way, and now I am gay. Sex, orgasm, was never this intense with a man, and I have never had the level of orgasm with a penis, real or dildo, that I have been given by my lover using just her own body parts. People ask lesbians "What do you do?" the answer is everything that you could imagine.
2006-11-09 09:37:21 · answer #4 · answered by irongrama 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not so much the penis lesbian don't like but rather the male that is attached to. Plus woman have a better understanding about what they want and how they want it. It's a sexual and sensual feeling that most men aren't capable or fullfilling no matter hard they try.
Alot of women stay faithful to there male partners out of love and respect but some are just unsatisfied. It happens. Try it out and see how different the feeling is between a man and a woman. Once you experience it you'll have your answer and from there on anything goes.
2006-11-09 03:57:14 · answer #5 · answered by pheirmeizer001 2 · 7⤊ 0⤋
How ironic! I've been curious about straight women,too. They must enjoy hairy smelly men with natural dildos plunging the depths of their beings. Being a gay woman,I don't. It's so unnatural for me to even think about liking something so physically repulsive!
The best way I can describe it : My brother asked me what was so disgusting about french kissing a man? So, I asked him why it was so disgusting for him to try the same? His reaction? He physically gagged. Then I said: Exactly how I feel,Bro!
Which brings me to the real point here...being gay is not a "lifestyle" or a "choice". Unless I also got to choose what color my skin would be before I was conceived.
2006-11-09 04:28:51 · answer #6 · answered by auntgnu62 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think we can be satisfied without Penis' or otherwise we'd be bi sexual. Dildoes are a sort of penis yet but I think what is on the end of them, another woman, is what helps make it more sexy to us. Natural penis' spit too hehe. I just don't like what is attached to penis' - blokes and balls hehe.
2006-11-09 04:39:36 · answer #7 · answered by gretphemelger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to quit believing what you see in those movies. that's lesbian fantasy....paid actresses directed by male directors. that "fantasy" a lot of straight guys have about lesbians letting them watch, and even maybe join in. (sorry guys..those are "fake" lesbians. lesbians are attracted to women, not men. unless they are bi and into threesomes...it'll never happen!)
most lesbians I know aren't into dildos. (my partner isn't, my ex was). it has nothing at all to do with a real penis. it has to do with how it feels (penetration). and I'm here to tell you, a dildo isn't needed for that.
2006-11-09 09:18:39 · answer #8 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a lesbian and i dont preffer a penis anyway sex is great when you are doing it with another woman no matter what
any other lesbians out there keep struting your stuff
2006-11-09 12:27:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's about love, not sex. Besides a womans body is a thing of art. A mans body can't compare. Toys work just as well if not better than the real thing. You can pick what size you want. But being with another woman is truely about love. Sex is just the added bonus.
2006-11-09 06:19:18 · answer #10 · answered by just jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋