I've always been attracted to my best friend. Every year that goes by I want to kiss her more and more and more. I know she must have sensed, one time or another, that I like her in a special way. I do try my best at all times to behave myself and be indifferent. I tell myself, stop touching her. Stop putting your hand on her shoulder, slapping her knee when she says something funny. The thing is I do love penis. I love men in general. And I've never experimented with a girl before but I have always been curious. I actually don't want to kiss any other girl. Only my best friend. It kills me inside slowly. I try my best not to see her too much. The thing is, I think she has a little curiousity herself, about me? About girls in general? But I know she is Far Far more straight than I, and loves guys. And I know an actual kiss wouldn't be right 4 us. I just want it to go away. I don't know how much longer I'll be able to do this. Did I mention she's the bestes friend ever!
2006-11-08 19:25:17 · 20 answers · asked by honeypot 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
if she doesnt feel the same way you'll only ruin your relationship and lose your best friend...you hav to ask yourself...is it realy worth risking it just for experimentation?
2006-11-08 19:28:14 · answer #1 · answered by вℓαмє_¢αиα∂α 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should mention the idea, like "Would you ever kiss a girl?" all friend-ish like. If she says yes and gives you signals, go for it. Nothing could be better than falling in love with your best friend, right? At this point I think you're just bi-curious... Experiment for a while and then decide. Or don't. There are more levels than just straight, bi, and gay. Many shades of gray.
2006-11-08 19:29:16 · answer #2 · answered by ....... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try talking to her about sexuality in general, and if she is accepting of it, then move from the general to the specific. Ask her if she would ever do anything with another girl. If she says no, then you have your answer, she will probably not want to kiss you and if you tried to it might ruin your friendship. You do not have to reveal your feelings about her, but if she asks in a kind way, then you probably can tell her. If she says that she would do something with another girl, then see if she would do something with you. See if she will kiss you. If both of you like it, then go right ahead, no one has the right to stop you.
2006-11-08 19:30:28 · answer #3 · answered by sangheilizim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So now all you have to do is confess to HER, an see her reaction, you can tell her your just curious, and there is nothing whatsoever wrong with that, who knows, she may be wanting you more than you want her, best of all,, since shes your BESTEST Friend, if shes not curious that way,, she should understand and not hurt your friendship,, She may even kiss you just to see how it is, you never know till you bring it to her attention, and by the way:: We all want pictures and a play by play on the details,, So,, go get her,,
P.S. It wont just Go Away on its own till you act or react on it somehow,
2006-11-09 00:50:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its more and more common, and accepted these days. I think you should spend as much time together and try to bring the subject up about women kissing women and get a feel how she feels. If you do end up kissing you may find that its just a phace or you realy do want more than best frieds.
2006-11-08 19:34:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ei..relax! its an admiration. but dont think of it that ur a bi. if u think kissing her wouldn't be a good idea to take that rat away from ur chest, then never attempt to do it. u can tell her that u really like her, her beauty, her aura, all about her. tell it in a way that u r frends, not like which seems like ur seducing her. ok? u can even make ur own style, if u envy her. hehe! anyway, ur frends. AND DONT YA EVER TRY TO RUIN IT!!! OK?! stop that stupidity. hehe
2006-11-08 19:34:51 · answer #6 · answered by liez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congrats
2016-05-21 23:48:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably bi-curious. If she is really your "best-est" friend maybe you can talk about it and she just might let you have that kiss you so desire! It's not so taboo anymore...girls are kissing girls all the time now.
2006-11-08 19:29:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Falling in love with best friend is ALL-OR-NOTHING situation,always.BI?Why you want to kiss her?Something arouse you while you with her?Curiosity is good,that the only way you can know who you really are,but be careful not to screw up
2006-11-08 20:58:09 · answer #9 · answered by Janet Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a teenager, it is probably just the hormones going crazy, i think you should just confront you friend about how you feel about her. and tell her if i am getting too close, just tell me and i will try to stop it.
2006-11-08 20:01:22 · answer #10 · answered by Wozza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok heres what i think. since you feel so strongly for her, maybe its your minds way of saying you love her, and i dont wanna lose her as a friend. maybe somewhere in ur head your connecting being physical with loving her. hard to explain but i know what im saying. its not that you want to make out with her. and it could be jealousy. i know how ur feelin im me if u wanna talk about it! back2thefuture1@yahoo.com!
2006-11-08 19:29:13 · answer #11 · answered by Molly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋