Why are you not desperate to meet your guy, as your guy is to meet you? why dont you always love your man , as much as he does loves you ? why dont you wait for him as long as he waits for you ? whenever you meet him why its always him who KEEPS AND REMEMBERS ALL THE Promises, all the times when you meet each others ? and why is it that woman always talk about leaving each others , not taking time to see each others ? whyyyy
Is it just because I AM A GOOD GUY?is it a good-guy BADguy BATTLE ?, i dont want to become a bad guy, but i can"t even forget her, whenever i look at any other female, she comes in my mind and eyes , why is it that Guy"s love a Gurl more than a Gurl LOVES A gUY ?
2006-11-08 19:12:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm sorry for your experience but you have to realize that some of us women have been treated by men the same way too. You just picked someone who wasn't meant for you in the first place. Just be patient and the right one will come along sooner or later.
2006-11-08 19:40:17 · answer #1 · answered by Leila G 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry that you seem to have had a bad experience in a relationship!! What you have to remember is this is not your fault! What you are describing is not how all women are and you have just been very unlucky. A lot of women have had the same thing happen to them from men also. There are bad Guys and gals out there. You sound like a really nice guy so keep your chin up because there are lots of nice girls just waiting to meet someone like you. So forget her and move on, shes not worth all the energy you are putting in to thinking of her all the time. Take care and all the best xx
2006-11-09 03:22:00 · answer #2 · answered by happyflamepepper 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the truth. Most women have been hurt way before they meet a good guy.They have had to become stronger due to the pain that they experience. They no longer trust, believe and give themselves to another guy,they feel the need to protect themselves first. That doesn't mean they wont be able to see and know that you are good guy. And why is it you believe that women should have to love a man more, then a man loving a women? Whats that about?
2006-11-09 03:49:18 · answer #3 · answered by livelovelaugh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all women are like that. Sometimes the reverse is true. She loves him more. It just depends upon the people involved. Love should never be one sided. If your partner doesn't love you as much as you love her than the relationship will be doomed. She will always be hurting you, consciously and subconsciously. I think that you should talk to a counselor and then move on with your life. You deserve someone who will love you equally in return. Just consider this relationship as a learning experience. Good Luck!
2006-11-09 03:35:16 · answer #4 · answered by BetteBoop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope u don't become the "bad guy type" just because of a bad experience. U just haven't met the right woman who will treat u with the love and respect u deserve. I suggest u move on and keep looking. U will eventually find the right one because not all women act like your ex.
2006-11-09 03:23:32 · answer #5 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe shes not the right gurl for u.
and if thats the case be PATIENT... you'll meet that person who feels the same way u do about her... it'll happen when its meant to.. and when ur ready...trust that.
But hey... ur good the way u are,...its good u dont want to become a bad guy (theres too many out there). The world needs more good guys.
2006-11-09 03:19:52 · answer #6 · answered by linds 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you totally loved this woman but alas she did not love you the same way life goes on and trust me you will find love like that or maybe even better and most of all you need to find a girl that loves you as much as you love her...that does exist... Maybe you r depressed also or in need of counselling or the ear of a good friend I hope it gets better soon.
2006-11-09 03:29:56 · answer #7 · answered by lol_des 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's not true ,You loved her and she maybe not but it doesnt mean you have to be bad ,well i am a girl ,I should not say this but girls dont like guys who are chasing them ,some girls like to hunt the guys who seem to be not easy to have ,so first of all you need to meet the right one and after that you need to take your time showing too much interest in a girl..there are many nice girls for you ,start dating some and you will forget this one who isnt worth your love..good luck
2006-11-09 03:21:22 · answer #8 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read this book
"Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus"
by John Gray
Good luck understanding the opposite gender.
2006-11-09 05:16:30 · answer #9 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not a question of good or bad guy.its just dat u feel real true love for that person. im a girl and i felt the same like u for my bf,yet he just left me for another girl.
this girl doesnt love u dr,u deserve a better person.it should be reciprocal wat u feel for her,if it isnt then am sorry to say dont lose time to move before it b fatal for u and she tells u the magic words GET LOST. the world is like dat dear.im suffering,its life u have to accept but dont lose hope tho i dont believe i'll ever love again.goodluck
2006-11-09 04:05:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋