tips on protection when having sex to not get pregnant?

Question

I havent seen my boyfriend in 2 yrs im finally flying to go see him we have already had sex, but we had sex when I was on the patch. We used condoms most the time but like twice we didnt for just the beginning. If he cums on the outside of my vaginal area what are the chances of me getting pregnant? I just needs some tips and advice on what to not do or what? I'm 18, I just want some help because I'm not on the patch or birthcontrol anymore, so I don't know if I should just use the condom with him everytime. I really want to do it without once again. I'm not worried about STDs, so I don't want any tips on that, I just want tips about not getting pregnant, or what not to do

Answer 1

if he's skillful, ask him to use the withdrawal method of ejaculating outside when he feels it coming.. Its not a 100% sure safe method though. Sometimes, his urge maybe to strong that he's unable to withdraw in time.

or take the morning after pill

Answer 2

Yes, even if you only had sex one time for 2min without protection, it is a little risk but anything is possible. I suggest you to use a condom and be on the pill. Condom is to prevent you from getting STDs, AIDS etc and the pill is to prevent you from getting pregnant. If the pill does not help then try depo shot. It is a needle that you get every 3 months, for most people it stops their period and you wont get any cramps. The only bad side affect is it will weaken your bone. Dont stay on it too long. Maybe a year or two. I hope you find this helpful

Answer 3

First off, I dont think you should not be worried, especially if you havent seen him for a while, b\c when you get too comfortable is when you can get yourself in trouble.
You could use a female condom that would stop you from getting prego and the std thing. If you are 100% sure about him, and absolutly trust him. Trust that he would never get with anyone else, even with the distance issue, and the amount of time since you saw each other, or one drunkin night and a bad decision on his part.... try a diaphram. My ex used one and it was wonderful! that and a bottle of spermacidal lub and you will be safe, and it should be great for the both of you!
Good luck. Have Fun :)

Answer 4

Pulling out does not work. I'll say that again: pulling out does not work. Even before ejaculation there are viable sperm that come out with the pre-ejaculate. Consider what you would do if you got pregnant. Talk it over with him. Realize what a huge impact it could have on your life. Then, use a condom. Every time. If you don't want to, go back on birth control or get depo or... well, there's a lot of types of birthcontrol that you can discuss with your doctor.

Answer 5

always use a condom its advised enough you would be amazed our easy it is too fall pregnant, even a tear drop of *** goes anywhere near your vaginal area its possible so please be warned we dint want another unwanted baby in the system do we Have protected sex and enjoy with no worries

Answer 6

specific, first needless to say he would possibly no longer constantly pull out in time, yet even then, the fluid will often times comprise some sperm before the complete ejactlation. It reduces the possibilities yet nonetheless supplies it of project. Why would I ask are one or the two no longer using some style of beginning administration.

Answer 7

Use a condom every time or you are going to be writing back here saying you might be pregnant.

Answer 8

Pill
Patch
IUD
Condoms
Injection
Diaphragm
removing ovaries
No other method is reliable enough. You CAN get pregnant even if he cums outside your Virgina.

Answer 9

abstinence works but do you really think mutual masterbation
constitutes sex...?

Answer 10

use copper T always