well im an extremely nice person. i literally havent lied intentionally for the last 2 yrs, i help elderly people with they're things like today an old lady had a flat tire and i did a U'e and tried to help her.. but when it comes to individual people i can care less about what happens to them. if someone gets killed i feel no upesett.. or the twin towers i didnt feel that horrible about it. . i was like so it happens every day else where.. or when someone gets killed in iraq. even school shootings. even people i know or live in the same town with. if something serious happens to me i just shrug it off like i had bad luck of all my tires poping or nail or blow out in last month and all was in good shape. just sucked kuz i had to pay for it .. or losing my son to my ***** of a girlfriend i hate it but just shrugged off..and dont listen to other peoples thoughts about me and have a great positive attitude on life and expectations ..am i just pompus .. if so i guess good than ..
2006-11-08 18:12:11 · 7 answers · asked by dustin s 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You are probably detached from any stressful events - in fact, detachment is you way of dealing with them. It might also be that you suppress your real emotions, subconsciously refusing to show them, as with your kid (but you feel for people in non-stressing situations and you help them with THEIR things). Either way, my first thought would be that you suffered a major trauma as a young person and developed that detachment as a result. Since you find that there is something wrong in that, you should see a good psychiatrist who might help you regain your ability to show and feel your true emotional responses to stress.
2006-11-08 18:20:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Oh my god!I am the same way.I feel like i was reading about me.I don't think there is anything wrong with you and me.Oh dear.All i know is i am very tired.i am a mother of two small children.i am a stay home mom.So i cook,clean,wash and iron every day.I am a perfectionist.At the same time i like to look good when my husband gets home.And the battle of staying thin is killing me.All of this is alot of stress and pressure for me.So i am relating this to how i feel about everything.You may be just tired of every day things,just like me.If you can,change something in your life,do something new and fun.i can't change anything,because of my kids but maybe you can.Good luck to you
2006-11-08 18:31:45 · answer #2 · answered by avavu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like your searching for a bit of attention to me. but as the budhist say and i agree, the perfect person should be able to take the positive out of all events. as horific as it may be, there is always a positive way of looking at something. but in your case it sounds as though you only care about yourself and try to ammend that by giving extra consideration to the people who are not close to and giving little attention to how you treat the people that are close to you. could be wrong, but thats my assumption from the way you wrote the above.
2006-11-08 18:18:24 · answer #3 · answered by jake s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you feel okay about who you are then there's no need to ask the question.
2006-11-08 18:16:12 · answer #4 · answered by will 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are agreat person.
so get over the fact that not everybody wants to worship at your feet.
2006-11-08 20:11:24 · answer #5 · answered by missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so u just wanted to hear "7 thumbs up" to your "great" personality ? u won't from me. i don't like nice persons, cos i know they all re fake. they just do nice things to feel superior, not because they want actually to help others. so u re fake and shallow. congratulations
2006-11-08 18:24:38 · answer #6 · answered by jacky 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
There is nothing wrong with you.
2006-11-08 18:20:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋