should i be mad if my boyfriend goes out to a bar with his friends?

Question

should i be mad if my boyfriend goes out to a bar with his friends, and he does not answer any of my calls ? what should i do ?

Answer 1

Give him the time with his friends. Sometimes I need time away and just want to go out with my girls. But he should answer his phone when you call. Or at least check in with you.

Answer 2

You call him your boyfriend, so you're not married. And if he's going to a bar, then he's definitely drinking, and the last thing a guy wants to do when he's drinking with his buds is answer the cell for his girlfriend. It's not because he doesn't like you; nah, he can be head-over-heels in immortal love with you, and he still might not answer that phone.

Don't be mad. He's just being a guy hangin' with other guys. And there's that saying, "Boys will be boys." If you get married, then things'll change, but for now, I say let him have his fun.

Answer 3

Do you trust him? Does he trust you? Would he be mad if you went to a bar with some of your friends? If you and he trust and love each other, then no, don't be mad. The fastest way to kill a relationship is by putting a leash on it. That leash eventually turns into a noose and the relationship gets hanged. If you don't trust each other, you need to move on.

Answer 4

Trust in ANY relationship is a Big part of getting on with each other!
Only You will know if He can Trusted to hang out with his friends in bars(Depends on His Age and Past record)

Answer 5

u shouldn't be mad if he goes out with his friends,,just put trust on him..that's is one important thing that u both have to each in order the relationship works..but if he doesn't answer u back any of your phone calls well u have reason to be mad at him.

Answer 6

for me a guy who's responsible and caring enough to think about what will they gf feels if they do go to bars, i dont think they would go to bars with their friends.. but those guys who's in a relationship and yet still living there life as if they're single they need some tap in there head coz bar is a bar, bar is where you can find the most flirtatious firls on the face of the earth and they're bound to flirt and steal your bf in no time...and about the trust thing, its easy to said that you trust him but its hard to do it when you're there in that situation already...and later on you'll regret him that you trust him because he broke your trust!

Answer 7

Dont worry too much sister I hear ya. While hes out with the boys maybe you should go out with the girls. Him going out to the bar isnt too much to worry about. Maybe ask him before he leaves to send you a text message during the night just to let you know all is right while hes out to set your mind at rest

Answer 8

I'm not mad when answering but please bare with me. I don't know why but I really feel all women are "this" way. I mean they just can't let their men go out and just be with the guys. This isn't just you at all. It is every single women I have ever come across. I know that if you truly trust him and have the most respect for him you should just let him be and have a good night. I don't know if it's some chemical in women's jean pool that makes them this way but I'm sure its all women. Oh yeah the reason he's not returning your calls when he's out is that reason. He's out. Leave him alone.

Answer 9

no you shouldnt be mad at him for going to a bar with his friends thats babyish but yes if he doesnt RETURN your calls its ok to be mad at him

Answer 10

properly, in alot of families between adult males(i comprehend its like that with mine) in many situations on a boys twenty first birthday they flow 2 a nude bar/strip club, its like a coming of age rite lol, it dosent recommend something is going 2 ensue between him and those ladies, only ascertain he spends his birthday with you after he comes returned from the Bar/club