I have been with my fiancé for over 7 years now, and we are both 27. My fiancé believes I should start letting him ejaculate inside me. Even though I am on the pill, Ortho, I have always made him withdraw, because as we all know, the pill is not 100% and one can still get pregnant on the pill even if the partner does withdraw. I agree with him, and believe that we are at a point where this would be okay. I am curious how many other females out there let their partner do this?
2006-11-08 17:33:19 · 15 answers · asked by barnfire2224 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
If you are not wanting to get pregnant, make him withdraw. You can get pregnant while you are on the pill and if you do the chances that your child will have problems are quite large. I had a friend who had 2 kids while she was on the pill and one was deaf and the other one has really bad learning disabilities. So until you are ready for parenthood, take all the precautions necessary to keep from becoming pregnant.
2006-11-08 17:43:30 · answer #1 · answered by luvkiss1973 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe he's stuck around this long. After seven years he's earned the right to ejaculate anywhere he wants. You could always consider adding a spermicidal cream or jelly to your birth control repertoire, should you feel so inclined. During sex (or any other time he is aroused) your husband's penis is releasing pre-***, which also contains sperm that can get your pregnant. Since you're taking the risk already, you'd may as well give him the full experience!
2006-11-08 17:42:05 · answer #2 · answered by Jetgirly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The chances of getting pregnant are so minuscule, It's not worth the worrying about. Let the guy ejaculate, it's not fare on him. Anyway if you get pregnant, 7 yrs is a long time, he might marry you then. & that wouldn't be so bad. Would it?
2006-11-08 17:44:51 · answer #3 · answered by elly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MY partner use to withdrawl, I am suprised you have got over 7 years with no baby. I got pregnant from that trick when my first child was 6 months old.
I think if you both wouldnt mind if you had a baby, I think go for it!!
2006-11-08 17:48:42 · answer #4 · answered by mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the pill is the best contraceptive besides abstinence. Withdrawal works poorly. Let poor fiance stop withdrawing.
2006-11-08 17:42:48 · answer #5 · answered by winkcat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have always let him, its weird though, now that I am pregnant he withdraws. well if you think you can take th chance I say go for it. Plus you already are chancing it cause of him leaking. Good luck whatever you decide.
2006-11-08 18:05:33 · answer #6 · answered by CM_newmommietobe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many months do you have left? Just wait, you wouldnt want to hit it big and luck out with the 0.001%. Personally, I think there might be other ways, or I mean orifices that can satisfy that desire.
2006-11-08 17:37:44 · answer #7 · answered by Julio Cesar C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are wasting your time having him pull out.
He is already leaking enough to get you pregnant WELL before he ejaculates!
Premature withdrawal is NOT birth control!
2006-11-08 17:41:30 · answer #8 · answered by zen 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
as an extra precaution he could use a condom, but personally I think that you would be ok for him to ejaculate it is such a small minority that do get pregnant whilst on the pill.
2006-11-08 17:39:37 · answer #9 · answered by poetrygirl on line 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my partner does this and i don't find anything wrong, but u need to see if you are ready for this cuz chances if you getting pregnat are pretty high...u need to ask urself if you are both ready to take that chance and are ready if you get pregnant...u need to sit down with him and discuss the pros and cons...plus in my opinion i think you should wait till get u married, it would be like your first time with him and it would be special...hope this answer helped.
2006-11-08 17:43:26 · answer #10 · answered by indiekajol 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋