I need to know honest answers from husband or ex husband only! I am 24, have 2 girls, I'm 5'3", 112 lbs (fit) I am very selfconcious about my body for some strange reason, but my husband says that I am hot and sexy all the time. It makes him mad at times when I make little comments about my body. Its so sad I can't even get naked in front of him. What do you honestly think if you are my husband?!
2006-11-08 17:28:22 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like he is frustrated and annoyed by your comments. After all, you are rejecting his opinion, that you are sexy. Can you remind yourself that HE thinks you are sexy, no matter what YOU think? And perhaps you can approach a little at a time to the idea of getting naked, say by wearing sexy nightgowns or sexy sleepwear?
In any case, you have a serious problem in your marriage. Don't ignore it, it will not go away but your husband might, if it becomes upsetting enough to him. I suggest that you should seek out some marriage counseling, either through your medical insurance or even through your church.
2006-11-08 17:39:40 · answer #1 · answered by DadOnline 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've never met a woman that wasn't self conscious. I tell my wife shes hot all the time but what I say doesn't seem to register.
You 5'3" @ 112....that's like perfect right. Don't spend so much time worrying about your body.....woman like men who are confident right, so be confident yourself. If your man says your sexy.......BELIEVE him. As a matter of fact get naked in front of him more.
2006-11-08 17:38:51 · answer #2 · answered by B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would tell you that I love you as a person wether 112 or 212. If your husband enjoys your look be happy. My wife sometimes as well will get negative about her body and make comments. then I take her to the bedroom and show her how much I enjoy her look. Listen to your husband he loves you and you love him.
2006-11-08 17:33:28 · answer #3 · answered by ML 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That its a huge turn off....Your not able to get naked in front of own husband then honey, he might start looking else where, I said might, He truly means what he says, and once you start seeing that your comfortness factor will rise a ton and all will be well.
2006-11-08 17:31:32 · answer #4 · answered by Justcurious81 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its obvious that you are obsessed by your body and that husband is annoyed about this. You shouldn't talk about your body and instead concentrate your energy on other things like being more affectionate towards your husband etc. instead of talking about what you think of yourself.
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i might think you are feeling awfully guilty about something. something deep and the only way for it to surface is to talk and talk. b/c most women think sex is not important in a marriage well, it is and if you are missing out on intimacy you are missing out on romance. if i were your husband i would get you help.
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