I cheated on my husband and he found out, he said that he wants to try and work things out. I am sorry I did it.
Do you think he will give it a fair go if I do? Will he stay?
2006-11-08 17:27:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Julie you won't know till you try. When you cheated on him, you cheated on yourself as well. Think more of yourself and get things straight with your hubby.
2006-11-08 17:29:21 · answer #1 · answered by ncamedtech 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Julie, it is a hard thing finding out your spouse cheated on you. You have to be patient. Show him that you will not do it again. It may take a little bit to trust you full heartedly again. Both of you should go to counseling. I can't give you a certain answer. I think though that if there is no more cheating involved it can be entirely possible to work it out. Cheating can hurt both parties involved. I wish there was an easy answer to your question. All the best and I am glad you learned from your mistake. Do not blame your husband if he has some trust issues. It is a wonderful husband you have to try to work things out.
2006-11-09 01:37:39 · answer #2 · answered by Kelly s 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love your husband and want to stay married to him you can only trust that he will give it a fair go,you need to give it a fair go as well how would you feel if the shoe was on the other foot?
2006-11-10 10:50:37 · answer #3 · answered by sue m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends you damn well better show him he is number one and dont let him forget, it will always always be in the back of his mind, so dont forget that either, but you will have to wait and see if he stays, KUDOS to him for stayin around, if it were me, you'd be single, I had a thought, did you tell him or did he find out other wise, if so, whats not to say you wont do it again, just this time be sneakier about it.
2006-11-09 01:34:08 · answer #4 · answered by Justcurious81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends,if he is a fair person more than likely he'll be fair,but are you planning on playing fair,in any case both parties will be wary,hope for the best & give it a fair try ,see how things go,best of luck .
2006-11-09 01:37:22 · answer #5 · answered by dee k 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just depends on the person. If it were me no I couldn't do it. But some people have the ability to work through it. I hope it works out for you.
2006-11-09 02:22:48 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look men aren't like us we learn eventually to let things go, men hold on to things and they hold it over your head, its a reason you cheated on him talk about why you did it and what needs to change if he can't do it maybe you should leave cause you might cheat again just be careful you should pray and ask god for guidance in your relationship good luck be careful
2006-11-09 01:37:28 · answer #7 · answered by k2u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you cheat and now it sounds like you don't know if you want to let him try and make it ok.For his sake I hope he hits the road.
2006-11-09 01:51:54 · answer #8 · answered by tennpeckerhead 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me your sorry he found out! i'm sorry but but in my experiance, once a cheater always a cheater! I'd say goodbye!
2006-11-09 01:48:28 · answer #9 · answered by pete 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ya
2006-11-09 01:29:47 · answer #10 · answered by sophia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋