i managed to unlock his hp password and discovered his nasty smses to other girls. have been monitoring this since early of the year. the climax was yesterday when i discovered a short video in his hp of a girl 'busy blowing his *****. i suspected him as in his sms, he promised to delete the video (which he didn't). however, our r/ship has always been good and he has been a loving husband. he cheated once last year, but i forgave him. but i don't like the idea of him with other girls and the thought he knew i was(am) snooping his smses?
2006-11-08 17:26:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You should drop him like a hot potato and give him a copy of the video for a Christmas gift or his birthday present.
2006-11-08 17:30:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you ever heard of the saying " once a cheat always a cheat"? Have you ever heard that the more sexual partners you have the better chance you have at contracting a disease. Even if you are being faith full, he is not and your at just as more at risk as he is. If he doesn't respect you enough not to do those things in the first place then I don't see why your beating your head against the wall with his BS. It doesn't matter how much you love him, if he can't have respect for you then he can't love you. You would be better off cutting your losses now than to get any deeper into his web of deceit. There are other people in this world fed up with the same nonsense looking for someone to be true to only them. It is up to you to fold your hand or keep getting delt this crappy hand. Good Luck!
2006-11-08 17:42:51 · answer #2 · answered by Fuel632 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake up honey the coffee has brewed over, along with your self worth. There are plenty of loving husbands to go around that don't cheat. If he cheated once, he'll do it again. Sounds like he already has. My husband & I don't have passwords, everything is out in the open, the way is should be. Good luck, I wish you well.
2006-11-08 17:32:49 · answer #3 · answered by OZzY MoTo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are different ways of dealing this depending on the kind of person he is. What he likes & what he hates and what brings his attention. I understand how awful condition you are. Still need to take couple of weeks time and make a plan to deal this. Direct confrontation is right however the toll would be extreme stress & your health consequently. Keeping to yourself is agreeing to situation.
You say your r/ship is still good so you can take that as your vantage point and speak out in the right way.
Most imp please make sure whatever you say should be valid. Any wrong statement would be like wrong accusation.
2006-11-08 17:40:08 · answer #4 · answered by Sanju_the_gr8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to confront him. You had reason not to trust him and know you know the truth. Once a cheater always a cheater. Don't let him get away with this. You deserve better then that! Confront him and then divorce him for cheating. I'm sorry to say but he'll never change his "habits".
2006-11-08 17:29:52 · answer #5 · answered by Gerber1626 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not good thing, obviously you felt in your heart something was wrong that's why you found the need to go threw his computer. your husband enjoys sex too much, you need to make a decision, which i think the best on is to throw him out of your house.
2006-11-08 17:29:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry honey, it's over. Yes confront him but expect the worst.
2006-11-08 17:30:24 · answer #7 · answered by Jan G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a door mat ? you teach people how to treat you and he thinks he can do anything he wants .have some respect and demand better.
2006-11-08 17:29:25 · answer #8 · answered by stephanie n 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like he is a perv =\ i think that u should confront him to stop of this time u will leave, and check his sn to see if he really stopped, but if he changed it, ask one of his friends if he still does it
2006-11-08 17:29:28 · answer #9 · answered by Ledzeppelin324 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to seduce your husband and make love with him every night until the day he is tired of sex and women.that is the tips i can offer.
2006-11-08 17:48:26 · answer #10 · answered by peterwan1982 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋