i was married and have 3 kids... got separated many times w/ guys. i have my bf now... but i have special attentions to girls... totally different w/ men. i dont want that boyish type... but i want them more feminine (they made me feel hot)... true... and i dont look like a guy like what u'v seen on other lesbians
2006-11-08 17:25:08 · 18 answers · asked by true 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Look, do not allow anyone who judges you make up your mind...and especially not your heart!
No one who says "It's not how God created you" knows you or can speak for you.
Only you can do that!
Being a mother myself, I know that my son would NEVER have been as wonderful a person as he is if he grew up with a mother who was miserable all the time.
I always knew I was a lesbian/bisexual. But I fought it so hard that I was convinced that marrying and having a baby would somehow "cure" me. Guess what? It didn't...and it can't. Do you know why?
Because there was NOTHING wrong with me!
I was made EXACTLY right by God. I don't have anykind of "sickness" or "evil" in me.
I followed my HEART of HEARTS and listened to God within me.
I found who I was and learned to accept it fully.
Since then I have truly been BLESSED by God with a wonderfully happy child, a beautifully supportive and loving family and an amazingly loyal and committed partner.
I thank God everyday for His blessings in my life.
I know that I NEVER would have recieved these blessings if I had not accepted His love and learned to live as honestly as I could.
ONLY you can know yourself and your heart.
2006-11-08 17:40:05 · answer #1 · answered by DEATH 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are having lesbian feelings, than maybe that is the way for you. I know several great people who have switched from straight to gay/lesbian and they are all really great people.
Many people have the wrong idea about the definition of feminism. Feminism, in short, is more or less the belief that women are equals to men in terms of rights, opportunity, representation, etc. (i.e. the belief that men are more muscular than women is not anti-feminist). If this is what you meant, than what is wrong with looking for more feminist men?
But if you meant men that behave or come across as "womanly," if you will, then see the first paragraph I wrote.
2006-11-08 17:32:22 · answer #2 · answered by Zikau 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If women make you happy then go with women. The worst you'll do is teach you kids a lesson in tolerance. Try and date someone you can stick with though, whether male or female, the kiddies need a little stability in their life.
2006-11-08 18:01:56 · answer #3 · answered by Rageling 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the easyest way to find out if you are or not is to exploe it or try it to see if you like it or not you ocould also be bi or you might even be more attracted to a more fem guy because where more open and under standing i am a transexual and i know since i came out i under stand whare a girl is coming from easyer
2006-11-08 18:12:28 · answer #4 · answered by chrissy n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 08:15:05 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you know what to do with that.. You might just be gay and have been confused but have 3 great kids so just figure out what makes simply makes you happy.
2006-11-08 17:28:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Me too, I don't like masculine women. Yuk!! I've had a couple of experiences with femine women and it is so sensual. I would keep my boyfriend, but play around with my girlfriend. Also, like any relationship, don't get around as you have kids to think about.
2006-11-08 18:07:24 · answer #7 · answered by OZzY MoTo 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You go for it Girl. Everyone should have an opportunity to taste the "Forbidden Fruit". If it is not for you, you will soon know!
2006-11-08 18:55:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my perspective, it is not normal. But from yours, it is. So, the pursue this with some female friend that you like and see where it leads. I wish you happiness.
2006-11-08 17:27:48 · answer #9 · answered by seek_fulfill 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
....I feel bad for your kids. Well, have a 3some with some girl and your bf. If you like it, then you're bi and ok, whatever. But come on hon! Seriously think about how this'll affect your kids! It'll screw up their little heads for sure. They are so impressionable, and you dating around is bad enough for them, you don't have to TOTALLY confuse the crap out of them. Some things are better left alone. Get a steady relationship so that your kids will grow up SOMEWHAT normal. I'm not trying to sound rude, but you seriously need to straighten out your priorities with your little ones/older, whichever.
Stay straight and hang out with female friends, don't screw around, it's not only not a wise choice, but I don't want to know what you're kids will turn into when they get older, and I can prettymuch guarantee you that none of em will be rocket scientists. They'll be too transfixed on mommy's choices in life and forget about the importance of school and education. Make the right choice. You're not gay, you're just bored with life. Get a life and stay straight, get married and you'll be on your way to normalcy.
2006-11-08 17:28:59 · answer #10 · answered by Wetawd!!NRR! 2 · 1⤊ 6⤋