I am thinking about telling my mom that im bisexual but im afraid?

Question

ive been thinking about telling mymom that i am bisexual but i am afraid, i dont even have and idea on how to tell her, can you help me with some advice on how to talk this with her, Thank you

Answer 1

I am going to recommend that you keep your orientation to yourself right now. I know that goes against what most others have said on here so far, but that is how I feel. I know every situation is different, but I can't see any parent handling that kind of news very well. For one thing, most people have a basic idea what a gay person is, but they don't really comprehend what a bisexual person is.

Besides that, it sounds as though you might still be very young. How you perceive your sexual likes and such may change as you grow and as you experience more of life.

Answer 2

Try to find a time when you two have some privacy, then tell her. She may be shocked or surprised at first but if she really loves you then she will accept you for who you are.

Just don't be like me. I tried talking about another friend who had come out of the closet and told his family that he was gay, then we got into a fight about religion and yell it at her. In the end that worked out and I couldn't have screwed it up more, what I'm trying to say if that way worked out in the end then you couldn't do worse.

Answer 3

Just come out and tell her. Is she against people having relations with the same sex? Mothers are understanding (the majority are) and she will more than likely understand, the more you think about it the more pressure you are putting on yourself. You never know your mum might have had suspitions but is too afraid to ask you. Don't beat around the bush and just tell her.

Answer 4

I don't know you or your mom, but I can tell you what happened with me. My mom was the first one I told ever, and I only told her because I was having so much trouble sleeping that I had to tell someone. Before I could get anything out of my mouth I cried for about ten minutes. She held me and waited for me to say what I needed to. When I did she told me that she had suspected that, even before I told her. She also told me that she loves me no matter what. I'm still going through a point in my life where I'm questioning, but it was a real relief to tell my mom what was going on.

Answer 5

it is never easy telling your parents who you are
it is even woste on you emotions trying to keep it a secert
and it takes a lot of effet to do so
it is important your timing is right
tell one at a time if it is easier
but be stright to the piont
"mom i need to tal to you about me
i have something that is wish to say
and i would like you to know it is not easy to say it
mom i am bisexual"
lt her work out what that means
if she dose not know tell her
but leave the confersation to her from that piont
if she wants to know more tell her
what she want to know
don't go into details and leave it simple
just remember it is all about timing
some times over the phone is easier
sometimes just before they go to bed
good luck

Answer 6

Unless you plan on doing a porn film and your mother is sure to see it, why tell your mother anything concerning what you do with your penis? How is that any of her business? Huh?

Answer 7

Just come right out and tell her, if she's anything like my mom, hinting around that you're bi won't be enough.

Answer 8

You will crush your mother....First off so let me tell you that first.....And She will go through a time of her Life.....Bisexual is a temptation from Satan....It is one of the most powerful demons one will ever have to fight...It will wee ken you to do things that you no in your heart is wrong...It is their to slow you down and becoming all that you were meant to be....The first thing it will do is chursh your whole family..And bring something own you all that YOU your self is allowing to happen....What you cause you will get the effect of...And what goes around comes around...I have educated my self own why this happens and I found it out own my own,,,Sex demons...Destory...What you were meant to be..And all you can be...And you already willing to tell your mom I can see that you have already given in....To your weakness.....Think about this really good and do your self a favor....Some of the things we do in our life's we cant take back...And it hurts our whole being in the process.....Bless you sweetie and I hope you will find the right way through your life's journey...I know who could help you His name Is Jesus..Call own Him for Help....Before you make any decision....Do that much for yourself....You owe yourself that much....Because This kind of sex demon has you blinded....From what is right from wrong...If it is right it is of good if it is wrong it is of bad..Evil....May the Lord shine His light own you through your life's journey....

Answer 9

the best way to do this is to not beat around the bush. just tell her straight out,and if she cant except it, well its ur life style anyway.

Answer 10

Don't be afraid. I'm sure she is a rational thinker who will accept you for whoever you are. I know I would.