I am married ,2 years ago my husband worked away from me ,I started playing pool on yahoo and there I met a guy 10 years older than me ,I didnt have feeling for him at first but as he showed too much interest and care ,I thought I fell for him ,I still dunno if my feeling for him was true or not because after getting hurt you just cant realize ..he lived far from me and he encouraged me to buy a webcam ,anyway we talked everyday and he imed me whenever i was online but suddenly he started hiding from me and because i got used to him ,i started complaining ,so he caLLED ME DEMANDING And left me ,I was hurt ,I lost my dignity ,but after a while when my husband came back to work nearby ,and we travelled to europe ,I was over then ..recently my friend said that he started a relation with someone who lived close to him and having sex with her but yet he climed that he loved his wife more than anybody else ,some months after he dumped her too,here my question is,
2006-11-08 17:17:46 · 5 answers · asked by Creative 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
why some married guys play with hopeless and lonely married women instead of helping them out of their family problems?
2006-11-08 17:19:28 · update #1
well as you said some men play with lonely & hopeless women ,so i think you just answered your question ,you showed him your weakness(that was your lonliness) and he took advantage of it to enjoy you for some times ,and soon after a while he got tired of you simply like this..I know you dont need to be blamed and i dont blame you but this can be a very good lesson for you .
And if you want to know why this guy is doing it with desperate women ..i think its because they are easy to be cheated and weak in heart !
2006-11-08 20:48:46 · answer #1 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the problem isn't him. The problem is with you. You shouldn't have let yourself get that close to a stranger. Go to a close friend or family member. You created this scenario and now you're complaining about some random guy you met on the internet. The real issue here is you needed some attention and you went to the wrong source for it. Trust your family and friends first and you shouldn't have this problem ever again.
2006-11-09 01:25:35 · answer #2 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the bigger question here is why do you as a married woman expect a married stranger on the internet to help you with your problems?
2006-11-09 01:22:42 · answer #3 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres a problem with and that is why were u talkin to a stranger that u just met on a online game, even though u were married. thats just shameful to hear
2006-11-09 01:33:49 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you blame and expect so much from others?
I'm not a specialist or counselor, but, c'mon what do you want from a guy who lives far from you and communicate via email and chat room?
2006-11-09 02:00:58 · answer #5 · answered by northmiamibeach1975 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋