this is embarrassing every since I had my daughter which she is almost two I have no desire to have sex with my partner I am 28 years old and healthy so is this normal ?( I had A very difficult pregnancy that requiered complete bed rest and hospitalization that ended in a premature birth and c-section )
2006-11-08 17:03:31 · 6 answers · asked by two kids and loving it !!! 4 in Health ➔ Women's Health
There is Nothing wrong with my Partner he is wonderful I just have no desire at all with anyone
2006-11-08 17:13:06 · update #1
Yes it is but you can talk to your doctor and the can help you with it if you want help. i am like you too i had a c section and i am not really that interested in sex too. Yourse is probably bc of the c section and the dramatic pregnancy. which is expected nothing wrong. But there is things to help you if you want help but totally up too you.
good luck too.
2006-11-08 17:06:59 · answer #1 · answered by knowssignlanguage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you just need to change things around a spell. Get away and take asome alone time. Have someone care for your beautiful babygirl. Like grandma. Take short break. Then when you get back arrange a night for just the 2 of you to do something. Romanic dinner, dancing, and maybe a walk or take a shower together. Pratice the good old oral presex thingy and see what comes around. Sometimes we just get stuck in everyday same way thing and need a change. make it fun and see if your not excited. maybe play a game. Idea that comes to mind... is both go into a bar but, apart.... pretend you don't know each other. Dance with strangers and then pretend you are meeting for the first time. See what sparks are re-lit. Or think of something different on your own. Just try something different and see what comes of it..... just an idea!
2006-11-08 17:16:54 · answer #2 · answered by MagikButterfly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of women experience some loss in desire after having a child. If it is a complete lack of desire as opposed to just a decrease you may want to talk to your family doc or OB/GYN about it. It could be anything from stress to depression or a hormone imbalance. All of which are easily treatable.
2006-11-08 17:08:54 · answer #3 · answered by Jane S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to come out of that box. You can have an operation to remove Fallopian tube to avoid pregnancy. And then enjoy sex with your partner. If you don't you are denying his right to have sex and that can create complications in life too.
2006-11-08 17:07:46 · answer #4 · answered by Rammohan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats too long to not be interested in your partner are you interested at all..like is there someone else that tickles your fancy.. even like a cute guy on tv or something...i have had 3 kids and the first 2 was very very long labor and the3 was c section..
i would definately suggest to speak to your gyn..thats toooo long to not be interested to do it at all anymore..
2006-11-08 17:10:20 · answer #5 · answered by nancy g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, since everyone's different, this could be normal.. for you (and others like you). I would consult a doctor and a therapist about it.
2006-11-08 17:07:24 · answer #6 · answered by revenueforge 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋