Ive known her all summer and her friends convinced me to ask her to homecoming. I did and she said yes. The actual dance was quite awkward, but i had fun and she claimed she did too. During the whole event, i was really sweet and nice to her and my kindness was noticed by her friends. A week later her friends ask me if i like her and i didnt so i said that i didnt and they said that that was good cuz the whole time she was bitching me out. Although i didnt really like her, i was quite disturbed by the fact that my kindness and effort was not appreciated. Thinking that maybe her friends were lying, i caught her in the act of actually doing it. I know that i should move on and i am, but this is kind of strange. Her own friends think that she is dumb for screwing me over like that. Im also quite cool with her friends and thinking of askign one of them out, but at teh same time people tjat are similar hang together so maybe that makes them dumb like my date too.
2006-11-08 16:37:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, a homecoming dance isn't exactly an engagement or invitation to have sex - unless things have changed a whole lot more than I realize about high school life. Just because you had fun at homecoming - doesn't mean you're dating or going to have a steady relationship. She's a player - and it sounds like you're way better than that. Whatever her opinons are of you - she's wrong and she should have been appreciative - next time invite the girl who never gets talked to or asked out - maybe it won't be the date of your dreams - but I guarantee you'll get some gratitude for your kindness and effort. And who knows - sometimes the wallflower turns out to be the most amazing girl at the entire dance anyway. The good guys always get messed with by girls who are like this - they are not worth your trouble or time.
2006-11-08 16:44:11 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that if her friends have already noticed what a good guy you are, then she's probably just the bad apple. don't worry about what this one girl said, and if you want to go out with her friend, then do it. i doubt that the friend feels the same way as the girl, especially if the friends have already said what a good guy you are.
take a chance, if it doesn't work out then it doesn't work out. but good for you for being such a good guy! this girl probably doesn't know what she's missing, or she's being rude because she doesn't want to giver her friends the impression that she has a crush on you when she really doesn't.
2006-11-09 00:43:18 · answer #2 · answered by mighty_power7 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is the one with the problem not you. If you were polite and kind at the dance then maybe she needs to grow up a bit. don't put all her friend in the basket just because she is being bitchy doesn't mean her Friend are the same.
2006-11-09 00:43:51 · answer #3 · answered by MJane21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should given them a chance.
I'm the opposite of some of my closest friends... sometimes you hang out with people and are close friends without even realizing how you started hanging with them in the first place.
If you do give them a chance, or one of them, be careful. Girls can be quite sneaky ... I know 'cuz I am one haha
2006-11-09 00:41:12 · answer #4 · answered by xX.crazygurl.Xx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget the stupid girl if she isn't happy with you being nice to her then so be it...she will think of you when the next guy she goes on a date with is a complete jerk....! and i wouldn't ask her friend out yet just give it time till the situation cools down OK??? well take care
2006-11-09 00:47:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this was just a bad experience with a girl who didn't appreciate your efforts! that's proof she didn't deserve you in the first place!
but don't be afraid to date girls that are friends with her, because that doesn't mean that they're like her. there are definately girls out there who would love to be treated the way you treated this girl! now, get your confinence up and get back out there and try again!
I wish you the best.
2006-11-09 00:52:02 · answer #6 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just bc she is like that dont mean that her friends r she is stuped 4 doing what she did she dont know what is good at all just take a lep and ak her friend out if that dont work find some1 new there r a lot of grils out there that will like u couse u r a good guy
2006-11-09 00:46:44 · answer #7 · answered by baby_lovenm69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and forget them.There is nothing you can do about it now and nothing is gonna change the outcome. Find some new friends and move on.
2006-11-09 00:40:42 · answer #8 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on kid,life keeps on going,there is many more girls out there that want you and that would appreciate your kindness.that other girl don't deserve someone like you.good luck on getting a nice girl that likes you bye
2006-11-09 02:03:22 · answer #9 · answered by Beautiful Fat Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they say you are what you hang with but thats not true dont judge her friends by her
2006-11-09 00:41:34 · answer #10 · answered by amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋