I was just sexualy abused two nights ago... I'm fourteen and I havent been to school since. I'm nervous. I dont know what to do. I cant tell my mom because I wont be her little girl anymore. Please help me...
2006-11-08 16:30:46 · 5 answers · asked by Ashley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Oh my gosh! I'm so sorry! I understand, it happened to me when I was a teen as well.
You do need to tell someone. I know how hard it is to do so but it's in your best interests. No one else matters right now except you and your health....especially not the abuser who only is protected by our silence! I know it's hard to stand up for yourself but try to do what you would tell your bestfriend to do.
I'm a mom and unfortunately, I've been thru it with my daughter...i love her just as much if not more. you can't damage a mom's love. you will always be her little, precious baby girl. if you need to talk, please instant message me and I'll give you my phone #. Please don't live in silence. You cannot have done anything to deserve this...it's NOT your fault! don't let yourself be alone right now. believe me life will get better this does not have to define you! praying for you ~ kathy
2006-11-08 16:38:48 · answer #1 · answered by kb1123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your mom honey!! She loves you no matter what happens and she needs to know this. And you'll always be her little girl. Whatever happened is NOT your fault. You need to remember that. Please tell your mom. You won't feel any better keeping it to yourself.
If you're scared of telling her alone, have an aunt, cousin, big sister, friend, teacher, doctor, school counselor help tell her. OK? Anyone. But please tell her soon before it happens to someone else. Good luck honey!
2006-11-09 00:45:51 · answer #2 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be afraid to tell your mom. What happend to you is not your fault. I am so sorry that this happend to you. You will always be your mother's little girl no matter what. You shouldn't feel ashamed because you didn't do anything wrong. But you really need to tell your mom.
2006-11-09 00:34:00 · answer #3 · answered by Grace Q. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest finding an adult you can trust and being brave in discussing what happened. I was abused when I was in the third grade and carried it around for YEARS. Find someone to discuss what happened, and don't be afraid. No matter how you feel, it's not your fault and you will not be in trouble. Please be brave and tell someone you trust. Your mom will not change the way she feels about you.
2006-11-09 00:34:54 · answer #4 · answered by stonageking 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know who did this to you but you must get help. Please talk to your mom. Remember it is she who brought you into this world and loves you more than anyone else ever could. No matter what happens you will always be her little girl and I speak from experience because I have 4 adult daughters but they will always be my little girls. I will be praying for you and may God bless you and watch over you.
2006-11-09 00:37:55 · answer #5 · answered by unionjack07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋