Why do they have sex when they know they're not ready?
Why should we have to please a guy if they're only gonna break up with us the next day?
Why have we lost basically all self respect for ourselves [dressing sleezy/hookerish]
2006-11-08 16:29:49 · 5 answers · asked by K 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
most girls are what you've described them to be mostly due to what the media had stereotyped a teenage girl should be..although they impart good qualities,some are too superficial and almost too perfect, and most young girls want to mold themselves into these "characters", that they become insecure of who they really are. And since most young guys also perceive girls their age the same way as what they see on TVs or on magazines, they try to locate the "perfect girl" as we, girls are also looking for our "perfect guy".such factors should not influence much of how we view ourselves.when we respect our own self, others will follow..for you'll have that certain kind of aura and confidence that most people would admire.
2006-11-08 19:03:59 · answer #1 · answered by chet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They leave it to someone else to boost their self esteem instead of working to make themselves the best they can be. No girl needs a guy any more than a guy needs a girl outside marriage. We, in the USA, have the opportunity to be anything we desire to be IF we are willing to work for it.
Why do they have sex? Because they think it will bring them love (it won't). Why do they have to please guys? They don't. Why do they dress sleazy? To attract guys and, as a result, they attract the wrong guys.
Girls who are ladies will attract the right type of guys. When they maintain respect for themselves, they can demand the guys respect them and maintain their standards. What happens then? They get the gentlemen, the men who hold their women in high esteem without the need for sexual satisfaction before they commit to marriage.
2006-11-08 16:44:21 · answer #2 · answered by snddupree 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think a lot of girls and woman have sex when they're not ready because they feel pressured into it. . I'm not saying only guys pressure us though, there's pressure from friends, peers, television and even sometimes family. There's also the whole thing of "Maybe he'll like me more if I do it. ." and the like.
We have such a fixation on sex and who's having it and who's not, it's hard for people, men and woman alike, to feel like the only virgin in a huge mass of experienced peers. I don't think it's an issue only with girls though, because many guys are pressured into sex early to. . we just don't think about it as much because guys are automatically written off as horndogs. . It's just another example of how sexist our society is.
2006-11-08 19:16:43 · answer #3 · answered by Darko 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because guys today have become pervs. And what girls see in the magazines is what is considered sexy and desirable.It's stupid really.And the music genre that is mostly listened to is all about *** and titties and gangsterism. So most girls sell themselves short to fit in
2006-11-08 18:33:16 · answer #4 · answered by Nemo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sex before marriage, you give away something precious hoping a man will stay or love you because of it. if he dont love you he aint going to and if you gave it up too quick thats all that on his mind.
2006-11-08 16:34:39 · answer #5 · answered by reno_tony_casino 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋