How do you feel comfortable with who you are?

Question

especially, in public. it's funny...when I'm by myself I usually feel so much better about who I am. How do you all handle feeling easy and comfortable in your shoes? ;-)

Answer 1

That's a tough one to answer. The best I could tell you is that when you go out in public, try not to compare yourself to others that you see. (Although that will seem impossible at first) Remember that you are going to see girls you think are beautiful or have great personalities, but remind yourself that you have those qualities as well, and that some others might be viewing YOU that way. The qualities valued as being "beautiful" or "ideal personality traits" vary greatly to each individual. Just try to keep your head held high. It's amazing how good self-confidence can have a positive effect on not only how you see yourself, but how others see you as well.

Answer 2

The first thing you can do is stop and consider for a moment that every single person you encounter is 100% as human as you are. Seeking to understand what unites all of us as people is extremely important. Understanding this unity is key in understanding our differences. Once you realize just how human you are, and just how human we ALL are, it is far easier to accept that which makes you different or unique. Then you realize, it is those very things that make you interesting, intriguing, or attractive to others. Embrace your unique identity. Embrace the possibility that someone won't like you, because chances are they wouldn't be someone you would like either, and that's a great thing. It makes the connections you make with people so much more significant and meaningful. Being comfortable with who you are is the only true way you will ever really know where you fit into the world around you.

Answer 3

I don't think anyone is ever fully comfortable with who they are no matter what they say. It is usually a mask put on for the benefit of people watching. I perform on stage and the only way I can do it is to make myself a different person, I am one way on stage and a completely other person in real life. So long as you don't be mean or doing anything you will later regret it doesn't really matter and it gives you the freedom to enjoy yourself.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

You might be introverted. Thats okay. There are alot of people like that, including me.

To answer your question: You feel comfortable with who you are by writing this down on paper......."Yes, I am such and such and I am not going to allow that to stop me from living my life."

For example, here is an excerpt from my own journal:

"Yes, I have problems in social situations. I am going to find out what it is and deal with it."

I accepted my weakness, and then I came up with a plan to fix it, help it along or work on it.

So with that in mind....you become comfortable with who you are by accepting it, good or bad, dealing with it and loving yourself unconditionally, warts and all.

Answer 6

By realizing you are a precious, unrepeatable gift and that you were born into this world with a mission. Find God and you'll find yourself and your mission. If you're feeling bad in your skin, you're too conscious of other people's opinions. Be fearless in facing your fears and you'll discover other people are to be respected, loved and honored and not feared. "When there is no enemy within, no harm can come from the enemy without." (Francis of Assisi)

Answer 7

sexy girl f iu r with mini uniform what should not come out and its coming out its more uncomfortable to surrounding but u r comfortable because of alots of watchmans and with out paying a penny.
if u r well mannared /managed like man as man woman as woman then every shoe is comfotable

Answer 8

i personally from experience is be with people who love you and are comfortable with you the way you are. never be someone you arent. there ARE people out there who love you for you and youll find them. my friends are great. they love me for me and i feel comfortable with them. then once u realzied how people are fine with you as you, you will learnt o be comfortable with yourself. just remember. beauty is in the eye, someone will find you beautiful and life goes on. <3

Answer 9

It's a natural reaction, but as times fades away, you feel nothing out of it.

Answer 10

i try to feel comfortable with or w/out company.....i guess we owe it to ourselves