my mom keeps asking me about my friends>>which makes me think that she feels like i'm a LONER--because i dont' talk about my friends.
i think it's too akward for her to know about what goes on with my friends, even though theyr'e good, quiet, and get good grades.
are any of you in the same boat??
2006-11-08 16:27:22 · 10 answers · asked by nina:0_0 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I used to always keep everything to myself until about three months ago.
Now I've gotten to know a side of my Mom I was sure didn't exist. She's really understanding and I actually talk to her about my crush now, too. I never thought she'd understand but gave it a try.. and I'm glad I did : )
You'll never know until you try.
2006-11-08 16:43:06 · answer #1 · answered by xX.crazygurl.Xx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am not a a teen anymore, but of course i was one awhile back :) I think what you are going thru is very normal. My mom did ask alot of questions and i did not like it one bit. I always thought she would not understand. I doubt she think you are a loner. she is prob just curious Do you bring your friends over? Does she know them? If not maybe you could have them over and she can met them, get to know them a little bit. that could put her at ease a little. My friends mom asked alot of questions when she was a teen and she never did want to talk to her mom. He mom died and she felt real bad. I am not trying to lay a guilt trip on you, but maybe you can have some mom-daughter time and just talk. My mom and i ended up doing that and now she is one of my best friends. I am sure your mom does trust you, she just likes to know whats going on in your life.
2006-11-08 16:37:01 · answer #2 · answered by carriec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a young mum and I can see both sides of the story here. I hated talking to my mum about my friends, because she would always end up asking embarressing questions and I hated that she might not let me see them if she decided she didn't like them.
From the mum point of veiw I can only hope that I know my daughters friends because I have nightmares about her ending up friends with a gang of losers that will get her in trouble. Your mum just wants to know that you are safe and happy.
2006-11-08 16:32:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom is asking because she cares. She was your age at one time so she knows what it is like. I think it's cool to talk to your mom about your friends. You could probably get some great advice. And its nice to have a relationship like that with her.
2006-11-08 16:48:25 · answer #4 · answered by Serinity4u2find 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-28 16:45:44 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She just wants to be a part of your life. Remember for years, she was the one who entertained you, dressed you, took you places and now that you are finding your own way - she feels like she is not a part of your life.....let her in a little bit.
2006-11-08 16:33:45 · answer #6 · answered by chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I'm not in the same boat, I tell my Mum practically everything
2006-11-08 16:37:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always told my mom pretty much everything, so I can't help you there. I was lucky enough to have a mom that listened and was interested in me.
2006-11-08 16:29:48 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i tell my mom most things about my friends and she gives pretty good advices.
2006-11-08 16:32:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anna D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and i really dont want to talk to her about it but theres no harm in it but i tell her everthing is fine not to worry
2006-11-08 16:41:28 · answer #10 · answered by ck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋