I am an babe in christ, and is trying to do the right thing by my marriage, I LOVE MY HUSBAND; and I do not look at any other in that way, but the feeling of that need comes and goes! WHAT SHOULD / CAN I DO ?
2006-11-08 15:49:08 · 17 answers · asked by Jenni B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Knowing that you are a babe in Christ, this answer has to be delicate. I am a Christan to and it is hard for me to to keep myself from the temptations of this world. I have been faced with all kinds of things. I know that if i wait good things will come to me. God is faithful. Tell him (God) the feelings you have (he won't judge you) if you really want to wait for your husband relay this information to God. Tell him it is hard for you and you have needs that need to be taken care of. God is understanding. Pray for guidance and for his keeping power. that nothing no temptation or any thing come upon you. And think your husband is in prison. he has to wait to. when you see him tell him you want to wait for him and you are praying for God's strenght he will be happy to know that you are saving yourself for him. It will be hard i know. but when you feel like you want to sin or so something wrong that is the time you start to pray the hardest. And sister know that God will be with you and i will be praying for you. He will keep you.
2006-11-09 13:59:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally feel that if your husband did what he did to get himself put in jail he wasnt thinking about the consequences and how it would affect your marriage. whether or not you should get you some while he in jail depends on how long he will be in their. If hes gonna be locked up for the next 2 or more years no need to deprive yourself. If you really want to do the right thing and be faithful do yourself a favor. Get a bunch of girlfriends together and throw a slumber party. Buy u a bullet. That bullet will keep you happy many of nights.
2006-11-08 15:56:54 · answer #2 · answered by meka g 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masturbate, get a sex toy, don't be ashamed of it, you will get to know your body better and your husband will reap the rewards of it. You can go to an adult store or purchase items from places like www.slumberparties.com better yet, have a sex toy party! That way you are in the privacy of your home and you get to see the items first. Remember to use lubricant and clean your toys always!
2006-11-08 15:53:30 · answer #3 · answered by my_son_wants_to_know 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do not say how long he is in prison for.
Days? Weeks? Months? Years?
And also it depends on what you mean by "that need" - do you mean companionship, non-sexual intamcy or sex?
Options are varied, depends on what is important to you.
Stay faithful
Have a discreet dalliance
Have sex casually
Meet some friends / new friends for closeness but not sex
and/or use battery powered toys for "immediate needs"
2006-11-08 15:55:14 · answer #4 · answered by Mark T 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, you have to WORK HARD to get in prison.
This guy must be a total dumb butt.
You need some serious dick therapy.
The more man meat you enjoy, the better you will feel.
As for butt munch behind bars, he will probably not enjoy his dick therapy sessions as you.
2006-11-08 16:08:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try self masturbation. I am a guy without a woman, & I do masturbate quite often. No one will know, as long as you do it at home. It is not cheating.
2006-11-08 15:54:25 · answer #6 · answered by just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never sit around for no jail bird. Leave his *** and divorce him! Find another man who knows enough not to get himself into trouble!!
2006-11-08 15:58:57 · answer #7 · answered by Jenna 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Watch porn and masturbate yourself! I'm really glad to have found a faithful and nice girl like you. You must not give up and look for other men. It's not good especially you're so into jesus!
2006-11-08 15:53:36 · answer #8 · answered by PoshBerries 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
depends on how long your husband is in for and what he is for then think about you needs
2006-11-08 16:09:01 · answer #9 · answered by robert899295 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy a vibe or a dil otherwise theres masturbation best suggestions i can give
2006-11-08 16:07:15 · answer #10 · answered by kissfan1979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋