ok. i have this really annoying friend, for ex. she'll say my name like a milion times and then go "hi" and she always asks me to ask her to spend the night. and recently i was going to a concert and she bought a ticket without me knowing and she goes well my mom cant take me to the concert...guess your gonna have to. AND HERE OF ALL THINGS im am going to hawaii this december and SHE ASKS IF I COULD TAKE HER AND PAY HER WAY!!!! i dont want to be mean but how can i solve this problem?
2006-11-08 15:04:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She'll eventually grow out of this but you might want to distant yourself from her for a while. It will teach her to be independant. The Hawaii trip is going to be VERY expensive. I do not know very many of my friends that I would pay for their trip unless I was a millionair. Just talk about the funds issue and she should not be offended. If she gets offended then it is alot easier to break off the relationship.
2006-11-08 15:13:56 · answer #1 · answered by live4logan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A true friend would be honest your gonna have to let her know this isn't write and you guys may be friends but sometimes need time apart but your really not trying to be rude about it...
2006-11-08 23:14:06 · answer #2 · answered by crrousey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Decline politely. Tell her you will be spending your holiday in Hawaii with your close family members who will be joining you there.
2006-11-08 23:16:09 · answer #3 · answered by rams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set boundries and learn to say the word NO.
2006-11-08 23:14:40 · answer #4 · answered by Vee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to be direct........let her know she is starting to smother you and to back off. Otherwise it is just going to get worse. She will get over it and if she respects you as much as she likes you then maybe direct is what you will need to do.
2006-11-08 23:16:54 · answer #5 · answered by Teenie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋