2006-11-08 14:49:27 · 22 answers · asked by tippy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You could go two ways with this one... (1)You could outright ask one or both of them, and see what the reactions are. But do it carefully or they will lie and get their story straight and you will still be in the dark. (2)Set them up....have a fictional appt, out of town trip, make it easy for them to get together, then hide and watch. Just be prepared for what you may see. Because if they are together, you are being made a fool of. If you think it is really true, try to have enought wits in light of your anger and hurt, to handle your business after you see them....Will you run him off, will you move? Do you have money?..Once you confront them, all bets are off.....Good luck... (By the way, my sister and best friend slept with my first husband)
2006-11-08 14:57:21 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
With a close friend or not, if you suspect your spouse is being unfaithful confront the issue. Your spouse is the one who is betraying you no matter who it is with. Deal with that first. If it turns out to be with your closest friend (and it does happen) then you can deal with that person afterwards. Your closest friends are in the best position to move in on your partner because they usually know more than they should. Never trust anyone that much. Good luck!
2006-11-08 16:04:31 · answer #2 · answered by Cashmere621 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Say nothing. Either hire a private investigator, or buy a hand-held GPS device. You can set the GPS system to 'log' its location every 30 minutes or so. Place this in your spouse's vehicle as often as you can without being detected. It will tell you exactly where they go. If your spouse stays home a lot, your only choice besides the investigator is to show up at home unexpectedly (have a camera handy to document what you find).
Whatever you do, play it safe and smart. Document everything you do, gather evidence (underwear with potential DNA samples, etc.) and hire a great divorce attorney if your suspicions are confirmed.
2006-11-08 15:07:41 · answer #3 · answered by Johnny Q. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-14 04:05:12 · answer #4 · answered by binford 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront your spouse. Obviously he/she feels that there is something lacking in the relationship if there's an affair going on. You need to go to counselling and work things out.
2006-11-08 14:51:52 · answer #5 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave them alone together in a place where you have been able to hook up a camera. or get a private detective to follow them .or hook up a camera at home and invite the person to dinner with you and your spouse,then ask them to excuse you while you go to the shop for something you forgot to get .make it a 20 minute trip .by next day you will know if there is something going on
2006-11-08 15:06:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well personally I would check out the fact first. If my suspicions are confirmed..Well as the Thing would say..."ITS CLOBBERIN TIME".
But you know we have to maintain our dignity so if they are dogging each other leave them both to their flea's. You deserve better...A better husband...A better friend.
One thing I've learned you don't trust you man with your girl friends. No matter what a man is a man and his D*** has no conscience. Girl don't you watch Maury or Jerry Springer!
2006-11-08 15:01:12 · answer #7 · answered by Goodie66 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask him and her, together at the same time. Try to act like you already know. The truth will come out after that if it is true. They will get nervous and make a mistake. Good luck to you.
2006-11-08 15:00:53 · answer #8 · answered by Ofie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have to invest in a hidden camera, do it. Atleast you will have the proof, if in fact your suspicion is correct. If you are correct, than I recommend you beat the living day lights out of both of them....take your frustrations out on the people who caused it in the first place.
2006-11-08 15:32:38 · answer #9 · answered by suenos 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First know for sure. Have some kind of proof and then confront your spouse. If they deny it.......then something's up and just try talking to them.
2006-11-08 14:53:13 · answer #10 · answered by AnimeLuver 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋