Is love fantasy in nature?
What is love in reality?
So what attitude should we atopt to love ,so that both sides feel happy and relaxed and life gets more enjoyable for this reason?
2006-11-08 14:47:23 · 7 answers · asked by Gone Car 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
It seems so challenging a question,I just want to hear what is no your mind on it,instead of complete solution.
2006-11-08 15:00:30 · update #1
Love is also obligatory. It is not just love. Maybe it might be oligatory for a period of time but some people can love for the rest of their life. Love is seen only in the "higher species". It does not exist in the physical world. It is a method by which future is guranteed a better place, and sacrifice must be undertaken to achive a peace of mind. Love is so unique that you could dislike someone but still love them. Love seems to be an unselfish behaviour that benefits both sides instead of being in the interest of only one person. In evolutinary sense, love is used to create more fitted individuals that will face and overcome the obstacles, and their genes will be passed on to the next generation.
2006-11-08 14:57:58 · answer #1 · answered by shkabaj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love has lost its true meaning for a very long time.it is never one sided where only one party keeps giving without receiving.that is what it seems like this days.
mind you you,real love involves justice!strictness!love is not all forgiving,no way.that is why there is a lot of divorce this days.we jump into marriage thinking we've found love only to get on each other's nerves.
fantasy came into play because we already have rigid forms which the love we know must conform to!this is our fall!this love can nowadays be found only in some children.it does exist,but our approach diverts us to something else rather than this beauty!
2006-11-08 15:07:08 · answer #2 · answered by hecteck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
Love is reality.
Trust, Faith, Loyalty, Strength, Humour, Forgiveness.
All these things given unconditionally are in fact love. Love is strengthened by each and every element.
It's realistic to expect these things, and realistic to give these things.
Fantasy is an ideal often applied to love. Unattainable, or if attained easily extinguished by reality.
2006-11-08 16:27:55 · answer #3 · answered by Oh, I see 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming that love is not a mere feeling, it logically follows that love is not fantasy in nature. It is commitment, a deliberate action of the will.
2006-11-08 15:32:38 · answer #4 · answered by ResponseMan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing that I learned resently is that part of love is that the other person makes us feel good. And we in turn make them feel good. Once that cycle of making each other feel good the relationship becomes strained.
For people who aren't secure enough in them self they falter in their love and often look elsewhere for their validation. Thus the cycle of bad relationships.
Part of love is chemistry, which can't be explained.
Love is also a reflection of what we want a person to be, thus it is best to make sure the person we love is actually how they are and NOT how we invision them to be.
I have also learned that I need to give love as much as I need to be loved.
One thing I see over and over again questions from men and women asking questions about someone they love and they are struggling with abuse from that person but they have this romantic idea that love conquers all. It doesn't.
And I have learned that we all have someone we love but we can't be with them. And that we deserve to be loved as we love.
That fairytale sort of love only can exist if two people realize that they need to nuture that relationship, honor and be faithful to each other.
Not bring in unrealistic expectations that just lead to disappointment and resentment.
I have also learned that romance, love and passion can be better when older.
When listening to the radio....the majority of songs are about love. We all want love, yet it can bring us more pain than we ever could of imagined. .....but there are those fortunate people who have learned to love and be loved.
2006-11-08 18:05:29 · answer #5 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-03-19 05:36:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a fantasy is something which one gets excited thinking about. love is something which one feels. when one loves truly, he makes compromises. the compromise comes from both sides, because both persons are in love and wants to be together. it works because it's love...
2006-11-08 18:10:12 · answer #7 · answered by Dizzie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the partner.
2006-11-08 17:14:28 · answer #8 · answered by nasturtium41 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋