my boyfriend and i have been together for 3 to 4 years now our sex life is sad but its me he would love to have sex every night im feeling like im drifting away from him i dont like him touching me and kissing me hes always trying to grop me and touch me which pushes me further away how can i get the spark back in our relationship
2006-11-08 14:46:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I have been with a man now for 4 years and he has always liked to grop yes it does turn u off. But at least i can be honest with him. I teell him that wat he is doin is sick. I just push him away. The problem is not yours. Be honest with him.
2006-11-08 15:17:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest looking at yourself and your relationship and figuring out what got you to drift apart in the first place. Obviously if you've been together for 3-4 years, there's something there and it's more than just sex (be it good or bad)! Why don't you like him touching you and kissing you?? Did something happen, with him or another, that has made you draw away from him and touching?? Is it just that you feel as though you're not good enough for him, or not pretty enough to yourself??
Talk to a good friend or even him and try to figure it out. If you still love him, which you must if you're wanting to get the spark back, then think back to what first attracted you to him and what you used to love and see if you can't find a way to get that back.
Good luck.
2006-11-08 22:51:45 · answer #2 · answered by rainbowofhope04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tend to think the problem is not just the sex. Although it too can become the problem if either one is not interested. Look at the whole relationship for the problen that started the lack of feelings.
2006-11-08 22:51:44 · answer #3 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wish i knew the answer...are you still inlove with him? cause thats what happened between me & my 1st husband i just fell out of love...he was a nice guy but i just couldn't seem to feel for him in that way...i also have some past issues that i think has effected my sex drive...childhood molestation sometimes i hate to be touched....are you on any medications? cause medications i am on antidepressants causes lower sex drive also....good luck to you...maybe go to a counselor & talk about it
2006-11-08 22:53:33 · answer #4 · answered by yahooligan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This ebook might help you to understand what's wrong in your relationship and It also teaches what to do to try saving your marriage http://savemarriage.toptips.org
It helped me alot!
2014-09-27 18:27:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
motivate the monagamous issue
this is a head game, guy freak out knowing their saddled to a dead horse..this is called ...issues
if this is where you parked your marriage you can say that it's a heartbreaker, ohh!!... but you aren't married hmmm...!!! what have i missed here? is this the sign of a bare hook or is it something else
2006-11-08 23:18:34 · answer #6 · answered by bev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
imagine kissing some fat old slob and then you will appreciate him
2006-11-08 22:49:09 · answer #7 · answered by agnobles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋