Torn in between the two?

Question

I have this problem, and I don't know what to do. I like this dude, lets just call him "G", and I really like him. (I'm a guy, I'm 14, he's 15 and we are in junior high.) I really like him, and we are pretty close. I have a gilrfiend though (14) and let's just call her "S". Well we have been going out for near 10 months but I don't like her like that. I like "G" a whole lot more. I hate the idea of hurting "S" because she is really in to me and really suicidal. She told me that the only thing keeping her sane was me. I want to hook up with "G" and I am pretty sure he likes me, but I just don't know. Time is running out quick because he is moving to another state in 2 months. (Even if I don't hook up with him, should I tell him I like him.)

Answer 1

In regards to "S", you say "I don't like her like that"... you are not doing her any favors by acting like you do like her.I can understand you not wanting to hurt her, but the longer you act like you do like her the more you will hurt her in the end. If "S" is suicidal, tell her parents and friends before you break up with her.
You say you really like "G" and am pretty sure that he likes you, but don't know. Since "G" is moving away, you can either tell him how you feel about him before he moves away or wish you would have told him and regret your missed opportunity. You are right that time is running out, so tell "G" before it is to late.

Answer 2

Unless you plan on staying with S your whole life then you are going to have to tell her how you really feel. I'd wait till she maybe got over some of her issues before I broke up with her, that's me but it may not be possible, you'll just have to decide what's right in the end.

Answer 3

is G gay? if so then tell him and see what happens, but be prepared for heartbreak as he is moving away

Answer 4

tell him u like him, and tell her she needs help

Answer 5

don't bother he is going away.
but you need to tell your g/f
how you feel.