I am a christian, and im praying so hard and everyday at every chance i get, but he wont listen to a word i say. He mad at me for 'judging' him. i just told him that he was going against God's Law. He even said that he was a christian. Then he asked me if having no sex was a sin. I said no, but im so scared for him. right now hes just bie, but he might go gay. HELP ME HELP HIM SO HE CAN HAVE A BETTER ETERNITY. SO HE CAN BE WITH GOD.
2006-11-08 14:13:52 · 26 answers · asked by Lydia 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
All hope is lose you lose him to homos
it to late
Read Romans(Bible) Romans 1 24 Wherefore God also gave them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonour their own bodies between themselves: 25 Who changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshipped and served the creature more than the Creator, who is blessed for ever. Amen. 26 For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature: 27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet 28 And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient; Savalation Romans 9 That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved. John 16 For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. 17 For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved. 18 He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God. God bless you
2006-11-08 14:18:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋
The most helpful thing you can do for him is be his friend and accept him. If he's gay then he isn't bi, there is no changing sexuality, he is what he is. You can either be there for him or you can drive him deeper into the closet and lose him forever.
Everyone defines what is right and wrong differently. You don't have to agree with what he does just recognise that this is one of the few issues when as a friend, you really shouldn't have any say. This is a personal and important decision. Instead of encouraging him to not be his self I advise that you let him know that whatever choice he makes, you'll still be his friend. You don't get to decide his lifestyle, even if you are of the same religion, his sexuality is a matter between him and God. I'd advise being nice and respectful no matter what he does.
Also this is the LGBT section. Don't expect someone to try and help you turn him straight. Not only is it unhealthy but it would be very hypocritical on our part, considering the majority of us are of an alternate sexuality.
2006-11-08 14:20:59 · answer #2 · answered by Rageling 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you're his "friend" then why are u judging him? You shouldn't judge him for his sexuality u should support him. BY THE WAY...being gay does not mean you're going against "God's Law" God never said u cant be gay. Re-read the bible and u'll see he emphasizes on men and women because that was tradition back then but that does not mean being gay is against ur religion...EDUCATE URSELF! God created u and just like ur parents love u no matter what God loves u no matter what whether ur gay or straight ur still God's children. Stop being a hater and just support ur friend if u love him. If u dont u dont know the definition of friendship.
2006-11-08 14:20:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hun..If you're a christian and you're looking for a christian answer, try re-asking this question in the christian/spirituality section. You might get the results youre looking for ....atleast better than what you've gotten here. But if you fear that he's sinning then condemning him will get you nowhere. Just be patient, be his friend, be loving and supportive to him. Read the bible with him, pray with him, and for him..go to church with him (if you go to church that is). Just dont turn your back on him. He was your friend before and he's your friend now, THAT part hasnt changed. He sees you as a close enough friend that he confided in you, dont make him regret doing that. And remember it isnt up to you to change him, nor condemn him, its up to you to be there for him, be his friend, pray for him and support him. Keep praying for him and God will handle it.
2006-11-09 00:58:33 · answer #4 · answered by Dani 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a Christian, your responsibility is kindness to and love for your neighbors (even the gay ones). Take the logs out of your own eye, let he without sin cast the first stone, etc., etc., etc.
If he is a Christian, his responsibility is to pray that God will give him the strength to continue to love his own neighbors, including supposed "friends" who think he is a deviant sinner, when he has clearly made peace with God already.
Consider devoting your prayer time to meditation on how you can be a more loving Christian.
2006-11-08 14:24:06 · answer #5 · answered by Ethel 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure why people get so crazy when the word "gay" is uttered.
No matter what you believe, you're not responsible for anyone else's soul....only your own so keep your mind on savin' your own soul. Keep in mind that not everyone believes they way you do. (If we could all just get along)
Why should their being gay change the fact that you are close friends? What's changed other than you now know for certain they're gay?
I'm not gay, but I have had the opportunity to know and appreciate several that are. If everyone would just get to know some gay people and realize they're just like everyone else, then y'all could relax.
Get over it.....be friends....and continue to praise your god. I would assume that your god wants you to have friends and be happy.
2006-11-08 14:25:08 · answer #6 · answered by E B 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he's really one of your closest friends, you will accept him and love him for who he is....not try to change him into someone you find "acceptable." do you want your friend to be happy? do you still want him as your friend? if you do, don't pray for him to change, pray for him to be happy! I was always taught that God was a loving God...and He created and loves us ALL! he WILL have a better eternity if you let him be who he is. and, he didn't "go gay"....he always has been....you just found out that he was. and FYI...you CAN be both homosexual AND Christian!
2006-11-08 14:34:56 · answer #7 · answered by redcatt63 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check Leviticus to see if you are truly following the laws you so strongly believe in?
If you embrace your friend and follow another dictate from the Bible, you will 'judge not, lest ye be judged' and maybe the edict to "love one another" might fit.
There's only one Eternity. Figure that one out and you may be way ahead of the game.
2006-11-08 14:19:08 · answer #8 · answered by vertically challenged 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if u r really a friend, then why not accept them for what they are. being a homo is not actually a mortal sin. they can still do their obligations as a christian even if they're like that. not all straight guy & gals go straight to heaven ok. some of them even go to hell bec they were not able to do good things while they are here on earth & they never act like they are a christian. it's what u do, how u do it & how u make GOD happy & other people as well.
2006-11-08 14:33:49 · answer #9 · answered by rea del rosario 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If a friend told me that he was gay, I would feel honored that the friend valued our friendship enough to be completely and totally honest with me. I would also realize that if I imposed my own belief system on him, that I did not value his friendship as much as I valued my own opinions. Since you are a Christian, you should know better than to judge others.
2006-11-08 14:21:27 · answer #10 · answered by χριστοφορος ▽ 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
People like you still exist?God loves everyone,he don't judge your friend like you do.He deserve a better friend than you,you only know how to judge him,force him to become someone that he is not,you are making his life miserable.He will rather have a worse eternity than having you as a friend.You are selfish because you are afraid that ppl might judge you for having a friend like him
2006-11-08 14:25:55 · answer #11 · answered by Janet Y 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋