Im starting to wonder if its possible to get used to the "hand" and oral just doesnt seem to work.. is this possible, how do i reverse this if thats the case? any tips its very dissapointing, i want her to be able to finish it and it seems that it doesnt work rite now tho..
2006-11-08 14:04:40 · 13 answers · asked by re33b9 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
if IT is her... How should i guide her appropriately?
2006-11-08 14:08:33 · update #1
it is SHE cannot get ME off.. i have no problem getting her...
2006-11-08 14:21:40 · update #2
I'm able to get off from oral alone, but it takes a while.
Oral is sort of an intense feeling ... but not one that moves me fast to orgasm. I think its really the lack of speed.
She should alternate between oral and hand. Not long stretches, more like alternating every few seconds. If necessary, when you feel sort of close, she could go very fast with hand, and then switch to oral at the last minute.
2006-11-09 02:35:51 · answer #1 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not sensitive enough to softness. You have been too rough with yourself or her with you so that you don't have the relative feeling without this roughness. You will need to detoxify from the hand if you wish to feel the other. You have to decide....to hit bottom to withdraw from that which pleases you to find a new more time taking way to get the pleasure you seek from a way that requires more sensitivity. You have the time and the will power?
2006-11-08 22:08:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As to be a mental thing like you don't want to c-u-m in her mouth because she might think bad of you, etc. Do you wonder what she would say if you did? Just learn to relax and it will happen - enjoy the moment and count your blessings that she is performing oral on you.
2006-11-08 22:08:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. I asked her to practise more often..... but she refused that idea. I'd say you have to be comfortable enough to tell her what to do that you like. And her to care enough to do what you ask without taking it as a personal insult when you ask her to do something different than what she is doing. Good luck mate And let me know what works!
2006-11-08 22:09:31 · answer #4 · answered by Tsage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever thought of doing both? A little hand action on the base while she goes at it on the top half?
Works great!
2006-11-09 03:08:05 · answer #5 · answered by Harushnakarvikonivonich Hakopyan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well of course you should tell her what feels best, just make a pleasurable noise and she will get the picture, also you might just be a little apprehensive about blowing in her mouth, you might try to get her to wake you up one morning with it, then you won't be thinking /worrying. good luck
2006-11-09 01:35:28 · answer #6 · answered by Beeper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Get an instructional video
2. Get close with the hand and let her "practice" getting you off with the mouth.
2006-11-08 22:26:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lol, sounds like you have yourself an inexperienced girl. You need to GUIDE HER.
2006-11-08 22:07:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i kinda got confused you mean her or you? sometimes its just a certain way things are done...& sometimes maybe its just what she/he prefers...i am a woman...& i love oral & enjoy giving it too lol...but if its not done right which i have had that happen quite alot it just gets more annoying for a woman usually...or a man too!
2006-11-08 22:10:05 · answer #9 · answered by yahooligan 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Keep trying. It comes with practice.
2006-11-08 22:08:37 · answer #10 · answered by Borat2® 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋