i want a baby...?

Question

i want to have a baby but know matter how hard we try i never get pregnant.. is there something wrong with me?

Answer 1

How long have you been trying?

I tried to get pregnant for years....I truly started when I was 16....I know not good....but anyhow I tried for years adn didn't think I could either. Then I did....twice and both times I had miscarriages. Since then I haven't been able to get pregnant again it seems...so I know how you feel....and I am sorry.

Try seeing a doctor. An OBGYN. They can order tests on you and your partner and find out if it is a physical thing. I know I am able....but I just don't now. If you don't have insurance or money to see a doctor.......Try to have sex every other day for 2 months. You are bound to hit the right time eventually....lol.

I wish you the best of luck and if you need to talk email me anytime!

Good question in my opinion!

Answer 2

My husband and I wanted a baby ever since before we got married. It took us almost 5 years and finally I am 14 weeks pregnant. I know it is hard and very emotional. You and your partner should both go get checked for one thing, I know it sucks I have been soooo many times over the years although they said we were both fine. The best advice I can give is simply stop trying. When we moved I said screw it I just don't care anymore and boom I got pregnant that next month.

Answer 3

Don't try. In fact don't say you want a baby. It will happen then. Just relax and have a good time. Stress doesn't help. Also keep in mind... practice makes perfect!!! Also all doctors say if you don't conceive within 6 months to 1 year to go for some test. Good luck

Answer 4

awww i am really sorry hunny, im sure that you will get your baby tho when the time is right! the only person who knows is god=]. but maybe you should start taking prenatal vitamins, and that will help your body be healthy and it will help it be ready to make a baby. how long have you been trying? well, dont give up! its hard makeing a baby, and when you finally do it is so amazing! Good luck!

Answer 5

My husband and I want a baby too... I'll pray for both of u and you pray us. I know that feeling of wanting to be a mom...Go to the doc. He can do some blood work to see if you have abnormal hormone levels. My periods are messed up, so I never know when Im ovulating. Very frustrating. Best of luck to both of you.

Answer 6

try this..afterwards.have your partner place a pillow under your rear..lay there for 15 to 20 minutes afterward. do not get up. make sure you know your ovulation time.. get a ovulation kit. also, keep in mind the more often your partner has an orgasm the lower the sperm count. so less often at the right time of your cycle and do not be in a hurry to get up afterwards.. good luck to you

Answer 7

I know from experience,the more you focus on 'having a baby',probably stresses you out and that could be why its not happening. Sometimes you have to NOT plan,relax and just 'do it' If it doesn't happen w/ in 6 months or so, you should see your Doc. GOOD LUCK! :)

Answer 8

My boyfriend was told that he couldn't have children. He and his ex tried and tried. After getting with me, we tried for a bit, and then stopped trying. Now I am 3 weeks prego.

If you have any questions on the fertility of you or your mate, I would ask a doctor about it.

Good luck in your future!

Answer 9

The best thing you could do is remember when was your last menstrual period.Then Check online on the day you are ovulating many doctors say that the days that you are ovulating there is a big possibility you could get pregnant.....You could seach for your ovulation day by going to yahoo.com writing ovulation day(there you would put your first day of your last menstrual period and it would give you the days your are ovulating....

Answer 10

have you seen a Doctor it could be something wrong with your husband not you its not always the woman that has the problem. have you considered adoption? there are millions of kids who don't have any parents