i like 2 girls rite now, but i get rely jealous when i see one talking with another boy and i dont want to be. so i was wondering if there is any way to lose interest in a girl and not like her. if so what is it? cuz i just dont want to be jealous anymore, i just want to be friends
2006-11-08 13:56:29 · 12 answers · asked by bludevil260_ya 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if we could control our hearts there would be less hearts broken but we can't..
we can't control feels of the heart good luck
2006-11-08 13:58:56 · answer #1 · answered by your name here 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first you need to figure out if you are done with both of them, obviously you cant be with 2 people, unless your a dog?? We dont need any more of them, right ladies!! Anyways, go through your pros and cons with each girl, who do your share more intrest with? who can you see being with a few months from now? who makes your toes curl and your stomach tingle when you kiss her? They are 2 different people, you have to have some kind of idea who you are more interested in and just be honest with the other and tell her you dont want to hurt her more down the road so your think you guys should be just friends, that you just dont think there are feelings for her like you need for the realationship to move forward.if you just want to be friends with them both do the right thing, just be honest, they might be hurt at first but they will respect you more.And try to remember jealousy is never good, it usually causes more problems. Good luck!
2006-11-08 22:14:57 · answer #2 · answered by littlebit02 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the quite simply, just be friends. let the girl ur least interested in, or both if u feel like its getting too complicated, kno that u guys should just be friends right now and just take it from there.....u might be able to then figure out which one of them likes u more and go for that.....good luck though
2006-11-08 21:58:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only way to get your mind off of a girl is another girl. Try meeting another girl that you want to have a relationship with and get to know her better. Most likely you won't have feelings for those girls again.
2006-11-08 21:58:39 · answer #4 · answered by ♀♥♂☮Trippy Hippie☮♂♥♀ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i just had that problom with my boyfriend. i got so mad at him cause i was talking to this boy and he flipp'n went off on me! now he is apolijizing to me and i dont take it. so what i would do is pick the girl that you like less date her get the other girl jelous then b-up with that girl and date the other girl. but dont get to carriend away cause do they both like you? if they dont then im sry i cant help u there but good luck with all that! best of luck!!!
2006-11-08 22:01:56 · answer #5 · answered by ~HOTTIE~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
figure out which girl you like the most. which one do you get the most jealous? Does one have a boyfriend right now and one is single? Stop and think honestly is one of them worth it. If they are available you need to figure out which one is the best one. Get to know one of them at a time.
2006-11-08 21:59:14 · answer #6 · answered by Franchesca 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You'll get over it, honestly. Just give it a little longer and soon you'll be asking, Why the hell was I ever jealous of her?
2006-11-08 21:58:42 · answer #7 · answered by adazhia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go tell the girl (calmly that u just want to b friends)just keep ur cool an u will b just fine ok.
2006-11-08 22:00:14 · answer #8 · answered by lauren k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres really nothing you can do. well maybe you can tell your self that you dont like her and just start ignoring her.. you have to make yourself not like her.. thats really all you can do.. but if you really want to work on it you can dig and try to find whats shes hiding and her imperfections and tell your self you dont like her beacuse of those
2006-11-08 22:00:58 · answer #9 · answered by finnyfroc315lax 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, are you playing them....cause you will get caught in your own game?
Can you be honest first with yourself, and then with each one separately?
..........try it....then perhaps YOU won't get hurt in your own game.
2006-11-08 21:59:04 · answer #10 · answered by May I help You? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋